my girlfriend is a virgin. We have tried a few times but each time has been too painful and i didn't press the issue. She is a muslim, although not scrictly practising she still respects her unbringing. The most recent attempt was close, we managed nearly full intercourse for a brief moment but was very painful for her. The next morning she had her period which was 3 weeks early... After chatting to some mates both F and M, some solutions were that i may be too big for her. also that she is afraid to go against her religion and have sex before mariage may have a physical but unconscious response to sex. What is going on? and what can i do to help?
mostly i'm searching for an answer to explain whats happening to her. this is my first time tutoring a virgin and i'm not very good!! help
mostly i'm searching for an answer to explain whats happening to her. this is my first time tutoring a virgin and i'm not very good!! help
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if you have put your penis inside of her, she is not a virgin anymore. so sex until married is blown for her now. you might try turning her on a little more. if you get a woman good and wet before you try to have sex with her it won't hurt that much. it sounds like she is scared and tense wich doesn't help matters much because the vagina needs to be relaxed in order for sex to feel comforting.
i would talk to her about it. if she doesn't want to finish it up because of her religion, ok. even though she isn't a virgin anymore sense you did put your penis all the way in her. you could have broke her hymen which will cause her to bleed. being tense when you are trying to have sex won't help the short period of pain felt. it will make it last longer. if she isn't ready she isn't ready. when she is finnaly up to it, you will know because you should slide in rather easily due to her vaginal lubricant. don't do it fast, go very slow for the first minute and work your way up to faster. if her body is relaxed with you the pain should only last a couple seconds maybe a minute.
i would talk to her about it. if she doesn't want to finish it up because of her religion, ok. even though she isn't a virgin anymore sense you did put your penis all the way in her. you could have broke her hymen which will cause her to bleed. being tense when you are trying to have sex won't help the short period of pain felt. it will make it last longer. if she isn't ready she isn't ready. when she is finnaly up to it, you will know because you should slide in rather easily due to her vaginal lubricant. don't do it fast, go very slow for the first minute and work your way up to faster. if her body is relaxed with you the pain should only last a couple seconds maybe a minute.
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how to not make it hurt for her. Is to kiss her first and make her fell ok. Then finger her and kiss her all over the place. try one finger and when she fell ok try 2 fingers and on from there. Then try to put your penis in her.
try it
try it
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