You people are out last hope. Me and my girlfriend,both 21,she is a virgin,are trying to have sex but we can't seem to break the hymen. We did it 3 times. I can almost get the whole penis inside her vagina(my penis is about 17cm / 7 inches). There is no blood,but i can feel like something is squeezing my penis after i get it inside. Sometimes is hurts her,sometimes she feels nothing at all,except for some pressure and discomfort. Also, she never feels pleasure when i'm inside her. For the most part,i feel like my penis is being crushed and squeezed. I looked at her vagina but I'm no expert, where shoud the hymen be?
Why is there no blood and why doesnt she feel any pleasure? Thanks in advance
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If you do a Google search on hymen then go to images you should see what it looks like.
When you first try to get your penis to enter her vagina do you feel resistance or is it just when your actually inside it lightens?
To me it sounds more like Vaginismus what is a constriction of the muscles in the vagina entrance it can be caused by several different things mainly traumar so as your girlfriend starts to feel pressure as you enter her her vagina muscles constrict around your penis what you can feel causing her the pain.
Being her first time to she doesn't know what to expect making it worse. Try to give her plenty of foreplay and make sure she is wet enough and also very relaxed and if she wants to stop do just that because the more you try to carry on the more it is going to cause her stress.
Hope this is some help and just be patient with her :-)
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The pressure inside isn't that big, only when entering,it hurts her a lot, and if i push further it hurts even more
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