My wife, I have been married 21 yrs. Like most marrages we had our ups, downs. We have 16 yr old daughter. I love them both very much but like any man sex is important. A lot problems stem from work, she has high stress job, can not turn off work at home, that's problem. We have sex maybe once every 2wks if I am lucky. There is no desire. What to do???
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Do you help clean the home or cook for her or now and then make her cup of tea/coffee?
Stress at work can be made worse by coming home to all of the above plus more no one is saying you should do all or half that stuff but some and now and then I bit more can help her feel less stressed to take her mind off things.
Talk to her about how she is, hows her day been to get to a way to say if theirs anything you can do to make her day less stressed to which you can say want you can help out with.
Try not to hint its for sex and once you said you do that never stop what you said you help out with.
Now yes you could do this and nothing gets better and I don't know if you even do any of the above but its better to show her you not lazy and sit here reading this...hey get up and kiss her for no reason.
Stress at work can be made worse by coming home to all of the above plus more no one is saying you should do all or half that stuff but some and now and then I bit more can help her feel less stressed to take her mind off things.
Talk to her about how she is, hows her day been to get to a way to say if theirs anything you can do to make her day less stressed to which you can say want you can help out with.
Try not to hint its for sex and once you said you do that never stop what you said you help out with.
Now yes you could do this and nothing gets better and I don't know if you even do any of the above but its better to show her you not lazy and sit here reading this...hey get up and kiss her for no reason.
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