I am nervous to have sex and I can't stay hard

It's because you are making yourself nervous and too! anixious try to think about pleseing are sexually. And its' all mental thing are sure your really readyand if so. You should start off with foreplay like kissing use topping and then then lic it off of each other. The eat her out and askher to such you penis or role play you do whatever you have to do and then you won't be so nerviou any more trust me this works. And I am not trying to be your moms or nothing don't you think your too young for that step because it not a game and sometimes things happen when you don't expect the consequnences like pregnancy or a disease; I'm not tring to say you'll got somethingk but please gey tested just to protect each other o.k and if you both are ready to take responibility and not run out on each other then I say don't do it untill you are both really ready o.k sweetheart /kizz out

dont stress about it to much i had the same problem when i was 16 17 now 30 i worried that i had something wrong with me but it was all in the mind i was more scared..... what if i cant get it up ........what if she doesnt like it ...what if i come to quick.... all these thoughts were in my head and then sex just wouldent happen id go soft and the girlfriend would think he probebly doesnt like me but i really did ..if i was 16 again i would
get comfortable with been naked together and not worrie about sex for a week or 2 or 3 just get naked and adapt to eachothers bodies and for play kiss lick taste smell get comfortabel with eachother get a hotel on a saturday night and relax have a bath together trust me tell her that u like
her but your nervous she should hopfully understand you trust me you will get better with age and expiriance and youll be looking back thinking
to yourself gee i cant belive i was so nervous.... like i do now and laugh about it .....dont worry youll get there mate...and also dont try doing it like a porn star the first time here there and every where just worry about one position do the job get it out the way... then move to 2 positions and so on i hope this helps ..........i wish i had the internet when i was 16 i really had to work it out for myself and couldnt speak to anyone about it
you guys are lucky in this day and age to have this support .....good luck it will go well trust me i was once apon a time in your situation

HARRY

im 17 and had the exact same thing, i found a way though it though, not like how these people say though, when i had the trouble, i was panicing and stuff, looking online how to fix it, and people saying " relax" it does not help when you come to that situation, eventhough thats exactly what you need to do :p, though i would always go to partys with my girlfriend and we would drink and stuff, though i found that either after or while i was drunk i wouldnt even think of nerves or anything stressfull, things just kinda flow staying hard does not become an issue at all, though drinking is not good for sexual health i know, but its just whats work for me, you dont think of anything your just kinda in the moment, and once you have done it for the first time, the nevers begin to go away and you can concentrate on hving a good time, hope you will be all good mate cheers
Alex

Thank you so much for this it really helps cause I've been having the same problem with my gf and she thinks it's something wrong with her and I can never find the right words to express how much it's not her fault I'm just not comfortable

Ahhh I think I got aids just reading all this piss poor spelling.