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Hi Guest
You given a great description of what is going on with you and your concerns the stage you are at does not really need a label.
For 12 and half you are developing very well and are probably much further along than many of your friends and classmates. Your size is fine and pretty much average for your age and you are right with already getting a bit of pre you will soon be ejaculating and there is nothing to worry about.
The frequent erections, the body odour, the mood swings and wondering about your sexuality is also part of the process.
The not being attracted to girls does not necessarily mean you’re gay it could very well just be at the moment you are simply just not into or looking for the relationships thing.
Do you find that you are attracted to guys is that why you are concerned about being gay?
There are a lot of guys that have the same concerns as you do and many guys’ experiments with same sex relationships and this is just part of growing and developing and discovering your sexuality.
You are the only one that can answer if you’re gay or not and if not already soon enough your sexuality will become clear to you there is no set age that becoming attracted to girls or guys happens but you will definitely know which is right for you soon enough.
So try not to worry about stages or labels you are developing just as you should be and are going through the same things and have the same concerns that other guys go through during puberty.
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Thank you for your answer :). And yeah, I pretty much find myself attracted to guys more than girls. Again thank you for your helpful comment :)
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Plus I am kinda addicted to masturbating I went 1 day without doing it but then I had to at like 3 in the morning .-. I usually do it everyday
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Hey sorry if this is already posted but ti's not appearing on my computer. Anyway, thank you for your answer :) And yes, I find myself attracted to guys. And I think I am addicted to masturbating, I can barely go one day w/o doing it. I went one day yesterday, but then I did it at like 3 Am .-.
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Your welcome and I hope it helps you as far as doing it every day and more than once nothing wrong with that either.
Being attracted to guys at this point may just be a comfort thing or curiosity about how you compare to friends but like I said you’re the one that will know the answer.
You should be proud of yourself being open about everything and if I could suggest something once you are sure if needed please feel free to ask for support and help here and it may be a good idea to look into youth LGBT support groups in your community or school. There is no need to rush into anything but there are many good places to find answers and support if needed.
Mike
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