Hi everyone, so yeah, why can't i keep a hard on?? it has happened twice recently ,
And i'm not sure why. oral sex works for me, but when its time to reach for the condom and by the time its on,
My erection is more or less gone. please post any tips or if any guys have this to i'd really like to hear from them
Thanks everyone, Be Safe :-)
And i'm not sure why. oral sex works for me, but when its time to reach for the condom and by the time its on,
My erection is more or less gone. please post any tips or if any guys have this to i'd really like to hear from them
Thanks everyone, Be Safe :-)
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hey jon,
the main reason why this happens is because putting on the condom is like a distraction. you are all into the mood and turned on then you have to stop what you are doing open a package slip it on (which sometimes can feel or look akward) so this distracts your brain and "ruins the mood" then if you start worrying o c**p my erection is subsiding then it makes it even harder to get it up because your body is now not worried about having sex but about why did this happen. its entirely a mental thing.
to help combat this try having your girlfriend put it on for you while she acts seductive and such that way you can still focus on sex. MAKE SURE your girlfriend knows the CORRECT way to put it on though before you guys start foreplay. otherwise trying to explain it to her will "distract" you and you dont want her to put it on wrong then have it fail.
does this make any sense? ;-)
the main reason why this happens is because putting on the condom is like a distraction. you are all into the mood and turned on then you have to stop what you are doing open a package slip it on (which sometimes can feel or look akward) so this distracts your brain and "ruins the mood" then if you start worrying o c**p my erection is subsiding then it makes it even harder to get it up because your body is now not worried about having sex but about why did this happen. its entirely a mental thing.
to help combat this try having your girlfriend put it on for you while she acts seductive and such that way you can still focus on sex. MAKE SURE your girlfriend knows the CORRECT way to put it on though before you guys start foreplay. otherwise trying to explain it to her will "distract" you and you dont want her to put it on wrong then have it fail.
does this make any sense? ;-)
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Hey, thanks for the reply. funny enough what you said made total sense to me! took a lode of my mind for sure, i thought
there was something wrong with me! lol, i thought it was cuz of my diet, and i started eating all these fruits and vegs and changing my diet lol, well thanks alot man or lady, made my day :-)
there was something wrong with me! lol, i thought it was cuz of my diet, and i started eating all these fruits and vegs and changing my diet lol, well thanks alot man or lady, made my day :-)
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hahah Im a guy and your welcome we all have issues gettin it up sometimes lol.... let me know if that helps when ever you guys try it again. and I take it you not that old so there is no reason why you would need anytype of erectile dysfunction medicine
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