14 AND IM NOT SURE IF IM PREGNANT

Omg I'm so scared I had sex with my boyfriend I am 14 and we had unprotected sex last week he didn't cum inside me but can you get pregnant off pre cum I'm so scared I have no mum and I live with my dad i don't know what to do 

well im 14 also and i dont know if im preganant either boyfriend said it didnt break but i seen holes in ig

Yes, you can get pregnant off pre-cum. Why did you have unprotected sex with your boyfriend if you're not on birth control? You're really young, too young to deal with the consequences of pregnancy, why are you even having sex in the first place.

Go down to a family planning center or a doctor. They will put you on the pill for free, and they're not allowed to tell your parents. They won't judge. They are usually really nice brilliant people, and they're just happy that you're going to use contraception and not get pregnant. They'll give you free condoms. If you're worried you're pregnant, they will offer you a pregnancy test.

 

Now. In the future, please, don't have unprotected sex. I know it's easy to say and sometimes hard in reality to do, but if you refuse to have sex with a boy unless he wears a condom the majority of them will wear a condom because they will want to have sex with you. If he won't wear a condom he is disrespecting you and being stupid and irresponsible -does he want a baby? Refuse to sleep with boys who won't wear condoms. You have to protect yourself. If he loves you he will wear one -that is what real men do. You can get condoms free from lots of places, so there is no excuse.

 

If the condom breaks, go and get the morning after pill. Yes it is embarrassing, but it is less scarey than having a baby. And you shouldn't be embarrassed because condoms break all the time and people get drunk and aren't in control when they have sex, so there are always tons of different women down the pharmacy every morning taking these pills. Go and get one. Go to the doctor or a pharmacy and take one.

 

If your boyfriend won't wear condoms or you keep breaking them, go on the pill. It is so easy to use, nobody has to know and you won't get pregnant. But make sure you understand exactly how to take it -ask someone. If you miss pills out it won't work and you could get pregnant.

 

If you're pregnant, you really need to find someone to tell to help you. There is no shame, this is a mistake that could happen to anyone, but you need to deal with it the right way, you can't bury your head in the sand and hope it goes away. You all seem so young to be worrying about this and I feel so sorry for you all. I'm twenty five, and I could still break a condom during sex and get pregnant, and if I did I'd be very upset! The difference is I'm a little older and more independant and know what to do about it. If I had a younger sister who had this problem, or a daughter, I'd far rather she told me than she was suffering alone with this, because it isn't something you can cope with alone really.

you're only young, at your age you miss periods, i know i did, im 16 and i still miss one nearly every year, its just your cycle changing, i wouldn't worry until you start to notice a bump, then your in it. but i would tell your parents let them know you're sexually active so they can help you to avoid pregnancy.

i am 17 i am pregnant 10 weeks and you should tell your friend mom and she will tell your mom and your mom will take you to the docotor she want be mad promise and my name is shanice baier and i didn't tell my mother i am not telling her she don't know

im seeking to adopt fyi

Hey hun I became a mum at 14 I know how scary it can be, maybe go to your local doctor to have a blood test done or tell a close adult to help you :)

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Um I'm sorry but most of you guess are like 13-14 and like wtf you are way to young! I just wanted to say that :)

who told your dad?
what did you dad do after he know?

Hey, i'm 14 and pregnant... In 1 month i'm 15 and I am 7 months pregnant... It's a little Maori boy... He is adorable and he is everything I could ever ask for. People have judged me for it but at the end of the day everyone is very supportive. My parents know and help me through it all.

So girls dont flip out... Here are some things to say: 

if your period is late... dont stress. We are young and our periods could be a few days/weeks/months late and this is natural.

if you have sex with use of a condom and it didn't leak or anything plus your period is late CHILL... this is also natural

dont listen to what people say because they aren't in the same situation as you are. its all your choice. you will most likely have to give up your life for his child and I AM SO AGAINST ABORTIONS!!! although they arent the best to have a kid young when you cant support them.

if you loose friends it shows what they are really like... those who stick around are true friends and those who leave... 1/4 is from jealousy and 1/4 its cause their parents dont approve of your choices. so dont take offence.

 

Lots of love JJ and Tui (Baby boy)

 

Wouldn't you have learned from the first time?

Im 14 my birthday is only in 2 weeks and ive been.dating a boy for 2months weve had sex idek how many times like everyday. ive never been with someone else so yeah. but we have never used a condom and rhe 3 time we did it i thought i was prego but then i started my period but now i think i am. we are freaking out he said he will stay though and i believe him we really do love each other. but idk how imma tell my mom my dad will probably take me back. i hate my dad. but my bfs sister.s pregnant ans got a test from the hospital so im taking it before school tomorrow. i love kids but to have one now i dont want to because i have goals but if i am i will keppp it. im really scared my back hurts and im waking up feeling sick. im 3 days late on my period but im thinking postive and saying im not pregnant. so we are crossing our fingers.

hey youre not alone . im 16 and im pregnant .just tell youre mum.she'll understand.

You're* is the correct word, by the way.