16 never "came". Is that bad. Kinda scared

im not a doc but i dont think thr is anything rong with u! just bc u have hit pubrty dosnt meen that u r thru it yet!.... pubrty lasts about 6 to 10 years be4 ur done with it.... and evn people who r finishd with puberty sometimes have the same prob!..... u should reed some discutions on it i think it would help!
i hope this helpd!

There shouldnt be any need to worry, your still very young. I remember when I was young and couldnt climax during masterbation. I watched videos, saw how they were doing it and tried it myself, but still didnt work, so I started trying different techniques. Finally, I found the right technique for me. Typically when a male masterbates the hand is positioned with the pointer finger and thumb around the tip of the penis, what i did was take the whole hand and turn it over, so the pointer finger and thumb are around the base of the penis. I also found that I wasnt doung it long enough, I typically would try for only a couple of minutes, but learned that it would take me 5 to 10 minutes.

There are lots or reasons why you may not have come to a climax yet, here are some helpful hints that may help you out:
- Try looking at magazines (Penthouse, Playboy)
- Find an image that really turns you on, femal in short shorts, bikinis, etc.
- Use lotion (hand cream, etc)

One last trick I use that works very well, wear a condom, it works great on the lubrication side, and is very easy to clean up.

Dont worry, it will happen, good luck.