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Dear Artemis
"i really want to have my first sex when i get married." That is admirable, and there are many who would agree with you.
"Do you thing i should sex with my bf or wait until get merried." I think you should wait until you get married.
Losing your virginity is a major step. You cannot undo that. You will never be a virgin again. Do you really want to lose your virginity to this boy? You say you love him, but not enough to get married! If he loves you, he will be content to wait!
"I cant think i can fight with my ffiends who wants me to have sex anymore." It's your body. You don't have to conform to their desires. They cannot have now what you still have - your virginity. Value it - with pride.
You mustn't let him or others put any sort of pressure on you to have sex. I think you should tell him (and your friends) clearly that you are not wanting sex until you are married. You must respect yourself and your body. Many would wait until marriage so that they save themselves for their spouse, giving a precious gift on the wedding night. Many regret losing their virginity too early.
You also need to consider any cultural or religious implications. What are they?
Also sexual intercourse is a bonding action, not just a sexual activity.
Anyway, I hope these remarks help as a start. If I can be of further help, please ask. I'll do my best to help.
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