My relation is working very well it has been 6months we both have been together... i m 14
N i m not virgin bt my bf thinks tht i m vrigin
Evn i dont waana tel him tht i m not..bt now he want tht we both shud do sex... bt i m afraid of losing him as my past relation was broken after sex
So i dont this tym too happen same wid me n whenevr i think abt doing sex i started thinking abt my ex... n dont wanna say lie again n again to my bf bt i dont think so tht if i ll tel him abt ol this now so relation will will be broken i dont think so he would be able to trust me
Shud i do sex with him?
Do i need to tel him abt my past?
Wat shud i do :/
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Hi Guest,
It's ultimately your decision about having sex. As you found out, it does change a relationship and sometimes can break one up. There is no need to rush things, you both have a long life ahead of you. He should not pressure you.
Your post indicates that you don't want to. So DON"T HAVE SEX. It's your body, not his. If he threatens to break up with you because you won't, then he's USING you. If he truly loves you he will wait until you are both ready, without any pressure.
I don't think you need to tell him you are not a virgin now. If he finds out it will likely make him feel angry that you won't have sex with him. It also increases the pressure on you to have sex.
Good luck.
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Just follow your heart if you don't want to sex with your boyfriend then don't do it.... And tell him truth may be if he truly loves you then he will understand and stay with you. Best wishes..
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