Hey me and my girlfriend have been going out for about 2 years now , and we have been considering having sex. But she doesn't want to have sex with me because we are both virgins and she wants to get hers out of the way so it wont be painful the first time with me . She says she would like to get the pain out of the way so that it could be more enjoyable, but some of the problems is that someone else would be pleasuring her and could be better than I could. I am also worried that she would form a stronger connection with him based on the fact that she lost her virginity to him. Overall I would rather have our first time be together. I don't know how to convince her that having sex with someone with whom you have an emotional connection to is better. Please I need some advice or help. Because I don't think her way would have the best outcome.
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that is the dumbest c**p ever thats the same as cheating i wouldnt go along with that the pain isnt over the first time it takes having sex alot to get use to it if she loves you she would wait till your ready & she wouldnt want to have sex with anybody but you
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...Just tell her that it's better to have a horrible first time together than to have one apart.
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well i would have been offended by her even bringing that up to start wiyh thats crazy
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