Ok here it is . To make a long story short with out all the details I have been with the same girl(which i love so much) for going on two years now. On jan 2 & 3(sunday-Monday) we had unprotected sex ,and at that time She thought she was ovulating. 4 days later (friday night ) she decided to have sex with another partner, which she says he didnt cum inside her. For the past couple weeks she has been feeling funny so we took a pregnancy test last night jan. 24th. The results on all three test say pregnant . Now this puts me in a ver hard postion . I feel robbed of the excitement i should and want to feel. But considering the window between partners its hard to know if i am the the father or not. My heart is being crushed with the thoughts that I dont know what i am suppose to do at this point . I want to be excited . I want to give the baby everything and be the best father i could possiblly be . But i cant be all that with out knowing ...anyone have advice ..or words of wisdom??? please help
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That's all really difficult... I'm sorry you have to go through all this.
With the time span between the two partners, it's not really possible to know who the father is without a paternity test. There have been cases where the guy didn't cum inside a girl, but she still got pregnant. There aren't any guarantees except abstinence and an un-broken condemn. I'd suggest you get one of those done, and nowadays you can get them done pretty early on in the pregnancy.
My advice... If the girl was so willing to have sex with another partner, then is she really the girl you would want to have a child with? My heart goes out to you because you have all the right intentions and want to do the right thing, but I almost want to hope it's not your child because that girl doesn't seem deserving of a guy like you. That's just my opinion, anyway.
Try to calm yourself down so you can think about everything straight. Father or not, you're going to have some big decisions ahead of you, and you'll want to make sure that you make them in the right mindset with no doubts. Good luck to you.
With the time span between the two partners, it's not really possible to know who the father is without a paternity test. There have been cases where the guy didn't cum inside a girl, but she still got pregnant. There aren't any guarantees except abstinence and an un-broken condemn. I'd suggest you get one of those done, and nowadays you can get them done pretty early on in the pregnancy.
My advice... If the girl was so willing to have sex with another partner, then is she really the girl you would want to have a child with? My heart goes out to you because you have all the right intentions and want to do the right thing, but I almost want to hope it's not your child because that girl doesn't seem deserving of a guy like you. That's just my opinion, anyway.
Try to calm yourself down so you can think about everything straight. Father or not, you're going to have some big decisions ahead of you, and you'll want to make sure that you make them in the right mindset with no doubts. Good luck to you.
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