im 14 and on day 2 of my period and some hours the blood is light, the other hours its heavy, is this normal? my cramps are bad and are getting worse it feels i cant get birth control any ideas on if the light and heavy bleeding in different hours is normal? any ideas to make cramps hurt less without using ice (it doesnt work) and without using birth control? (since i cant get any) and any ideas on how to shorten my perio? i go back to school on monday and my periods very monthly from 4-7 days sometimes PLEASE HELP :(