Pleaseeeeee help me.....I have been married for over 3 years now and i am still a virgin. I have a low tolerance when it comes to pain and i am very scared because of all the stories I've heard. We are finally making progress and he got a little bit inside me but it was really uncomfortable because we were at the edge of the bed. I get really wet but then I get dry in seconds. We just can't seem to get the right position. We tried to use the fingers but even 1 finger hurts a lot.
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hi, its probably because of your fear of any pain its causing your vagina muscles to tense up and make it extra tight, try using extra water based lubricant and maybe have a glass of wine or two before to help you relax more.
The best position I would say is for you on top that way you have full control on how fast he enters you and also you have control to stop and let any strange feelings go before you carry on :-)
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When I lost my virginity it hurt a bit, but mostly because I was afraid of the pain and not fully aroused. You need to relax, I agree that you should have a glass of wine or two. I think you should make out and foreplay for a while beforehand, lots of kissing in your sensitive areas, etc., to put you in the mood. Then when you're ready, either you go on top or have him go on top in the missionary position and ask him to go slowly and softly at first until you're ready for more.
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