I don't know whether this is normal but I just cannot ejaculate while she's on top. We've had sex more than half a dozen times, yet nothing happens. I don't even "feel" it coming. I'm talking about when she's a cowgirl.
However, when we switch to missionary position, I explode rather quickly. Less than 5 minutes. And no, its not because it has "lead" to that from the previous position. We've tried missionary one time first, before anything else, and I couldn't last more than two minutes.
Is this normal? We're going try other positions but is there something wrong with me? I'm erect when she's on top on me but I really can't "climax" when she's on top. We've gone at it for over 20 minutes on one occasion using the cowgirl position and yet I couldn't ejaculate, WTF!!1!!!
Is this because I'm the one in control during missionary? So it turns me on even more....cause I have the power? I'm a puppet when she's on top lol.
However, when we switch to missionary position, I explode rather quickly. Less than 5 minutes. And no, its not because it has "lead" to that from the previous position. We've tried missionary one time first, before anything else, and I couldn't last more than two minutes.
Is this normal? We're going try other positions but is there something wrong with me? I'm erect when she's on top on me but I really can't "climax" when she's on top. We've gone at it for over 20 minutes on one occasion using the cowgirl position and yet I couldn't ejaculate, WTF!!1!!!
Is this because I'm the one in control during missionary? So it turns me on even more....cause I have the power? I'm a puppet when she's on top lol.
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I'm going to go with it's in your head like you said with the control thing. Maybe it's a better fit for you missionary, literally, rather than when she's on top. Sometimes it takes longer in certain positions. Your mood at the time plays a big part & your personal preference/ position. Myself, I would not be concerned with the issue of not going while she is on top, take it for what it is, a great time that gets to last longer!
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I really can't imagine that weight has anything to do with it. "Is this because I'm the one in control during missionary? So it turns me on even more....cause I have the power? I'm a puppet when she's on top lol. " I'm still going with it's in your head/ personal preference. I would NOT worry about it. Just lay on back & enjoy the ride, literally.
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You can't go after how long, 20 minutes, that's not as long of a time as you may think. It's sex, have fun & go for a sexathon then. Certain positions stimulate people in different ways, some positions more so than others. If you couldn't go at all, I'd say go get checked out for some kind of problem. You could be on the other end & go before it's even in. I'm still going with it's in your head though for the most part.
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