Yeah... I dont really want to tell you about myself, because I am ashamed of this. But I am a teen (15), and I have been on the Aviane birth control pill for almost 3 full months. I was at my boyfriend's house last sunday (August 27, 2006). I believe I have a split personality disorder because sometimes I say, do and think things I normally would not out of common sense, but I asked him if 'he wanted to see how far in he could get'. He tried, and I dont know how far he got, but it was far enough to hurt and cause me to bleed. I am supposed to be going on my period this week, I took my first 'period week' pill that day, and its 2 days later. I think I should be starting tomorrow or the day after, but I'm really scared. He didn't ejaculate or anything, he said he made sure he didn't. So I dont know why I'm so upset, but can anyone help me? Please, I need some ease to my mind... I'm so scared right now... I am afraid my stepfather will never let me see my boyfirend again, and I love him with all my heart and soul... can someone please tell me if it is possible that I am pregnant? And please dont try to lecture me... I am ashamed of myself already... I know what I did is wrong and I swore that I would never ever do it again until I am married...
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never be asamed of whjat u have done .. yes ur step dad will proberly be mad if you told him but it isn`t ur fault your just exploring life . all tenn or preteen girls will at there age be experimenting in ways . if u have probelems with speaking to your aprents about your issue ask friends to come over and talk to your parents with or tell your parents your self and take all the punishment . you could also try to work it out so that for at least 2-3 months you and your boyfriend would only see each other at home when parents are present . a lot of parents feel unsafe about kids at ages 14-16 haveing sex yet soem of these girls live on the streets or some had bad lives and some are just expressing there feelings or may just be exploring life .
signed : conserned citizen of canada
signed : conserned citizen of canada
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well something very similar i have been on birth control lo ovaral for about months. i have never had sex with out a condom until a couple weeks ago, it kinda broke on us, and im so worried....but should i be???
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since you were on the pill i think you should have been protected against getting pregnent.
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Don't beat yourself up so much, anyone who says they've never taken a chance with sex is lying. If you're not comfortable getting your parents involved, at the very least take a pregnancy test if for no other reason than to put your mind at ease. There is nothing you can do about what is past. Just try to take care of yourself and do your best to be careful in the future. Regrets are just a waste of time and energy. One of my best friends got pregnant when she was sixteen, beautiful baby but it's been a tough path to walk. Don't worry, you're probably fine :-)
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A lot of young girls will say things that they don't mean sometimes, I've seen a lot of girls think that they have split personality disorder...its called hormones you're young and your hormones are still very active. Also don't be ashamed of anything you have done, you made a choice and should be happy with it because you made it for a reason. Now on to advice since you have been on birth control for 3 months for the most part you should definitely be safe, after one month birth control pills take full effect. My girlfriend is also on aviane or however its spelt :$ and we have not had any issues with unprotected sex and we do it 3 or 4 times a day withotu regrets.
If it really scares you condoms can never hurt the chances of staying pregnancy free. Stop stressing and let your period come if it doesn't then take action by first buying a home pregnancy test and if that is possitive go see a gynocologist, there are ways around it with your parents, but if you do get pregnant involving them would be for the best show them you are mature and can handle yourself.
If it really scares you condoms can never hurt the chances of staying pregnancy free. Stop stressing and let your period come if it doesn't then take action by first buying a home pregnancy test and if that is possitive go see a gynocologist, there are ways around it with your parents, but if you do get pregnant involving them would be for the best show them you are mature and can handle yourself.
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