worried that i might be pregnant help!

Hey hun! I'm sorry your going through this but thats the risk you takwe when you have sex.You seem to be mature about it so i'm going to ask you a couple of questions.DId you use a condom?If so did the condom break? Are you on any type of birth control? DO you keep track of your periods? How long is your cycle?

You really should take a pregnancy test dear as soon as possible.The bleeding you experience when you get pregnant is called implantation bleeding. Its actually old blood left in your uterus from your last period and when the egg implants itself on your uterin wall the blood sheds off. It is usually very light in flow with a light pink or brown color to it. Now if you are on Birth control that could be messing your period up a bit and could have caused it to be late or not come at all.

I'm sorry it would be so hard to tell your parents and I know you feel ashamed but you have to tell them if you are.I can't look down on you because when I was 15 I also had a 21yr old bf! Sounds crazy. . .does the guy you slept with know you may be pregnant? what does he think about it? will he be there to help support the child? is he your boyfriend or was this something that just happened?

hey thanks for writing back it means alot. Yeh we used a condom for most of it and the two times we didn't use a condom it was only for about 5minutes both times. The first time was when we were finished but he hadn't cum and we were....well in the momment. I know he didn't cum but I am afraid of pre-cum. The second time we didn't use a condom was just when we started but used a condom for the rest of it. I'm not on any birth control don't think I can go on it untill I'm 16. I sometimes keep record of my periods, I sometimes don't because I always know when I'm about to have my period from cramps and stuff and I'm even more freaked because I haven't really been keeping record of it lately.

I've talked to a friend of mine and as soon as i get over this flu and I'm allowed out were going to get two just to be safe because I just want to be sure. When I got my period and stopped freaking out about being pregnant, it wasn't pink or brown in colour is was actually just pure red and kind of watery. I had it for about 6 days like a normal period and i heard the implantation bleeding only lasts for about 3 days maybe less? is this true?

No me and this guy aren't going out we've known eachother for about 3-4 yrs now and this may sound freaky and weird but we met over xbox live and thats how he knows my brother because I introduced my brother to him and a few other lads. Then I started to talk to him on msn and then we gave eachother our numbers. We were texting for about 9months maybe longer. I do really like him and he's told me he likes me too but to be honest I don't think I could be with someone that much older than me when I'm 15. And yes I know some people who read this are thinking well if you can't see yourself with him now why the hell did you have sex with him and loose your virginity to him?? Well to be honest I'm not quit sure myself but I don't regret loosing my virginity to him or at my age but I'm not exactly proud of myself for not waiting till I was a bit older or even maybe a guy who is closer to my age. If I was 18 and he was 24 I'd have no problem with it. And besides it wouldn't really work out as a relationship now because we'd hardly see eachother and he's able to go to pubs and night clubs so what we would be able to do together would be very limited.

The first time I ever saw him in person was when me and my m8s were stuck for a lift so I rang him and asked if he could give us one (thinking there would be no chance) but he did. The next time I saw him we arranged ta meet up and one thing led to another. He has no idea that I think I might be pregnant and I don't want to freak him out untill I get the test and I know for sure. I know that if I were pregnant he would stick by me and support the child but that's if my family doesn't press charges which believe me I'm pretty sure they will and I really don't want to do that to this guy.

I went onto this site and it could calculate how many weeks I was pregant and it calculated 3weeks and 4 days and I would be due on the 30th of July 2007. I know it may sound stupid that I've done that but I was curious and if i were pregnant i wanted ta know. And if I really am pregnant I've been smoking and drinking which I know isn't good for an unborn child but could I have done serious damage do the baby already??

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so many worries

No problem! I like to help people especially when they're sincere about needing the help! ok so you know abou trprecum and thats good cause most girls don't,but since you had sex with & without a condom,you may as well just say you didn't use one because there is still a very high risk there. That sort of bleeding does NOT sound like implantation,maybe your hyman (cherry) broke or the guy you slept with ruptured something or rubbed you the wrong way? implantation bleeding can last up to 3 days but from what I have heard from my friends some have bled for 4 hourse while others bled for 4-5 days.But their bleeding was light in color,not even enough for a tampon,so I doubt your pregnant.Just in case though,you need to take a test like you said and please please please tell me the results hun!

The first 3 months are the most crutial in the development of the fetus.That is also the period of time that the most miscarriages happen,but it doesn't mean it will. The smoking and drinking you have done may have affected your child but hteres really no telling. I know lots of people who smoked cigs,weed and drank duringhteir pregnancy and the kids came out fine but others aren't so lucky. And it doesn't neccessarily mean the child will die it could come out with abnormalities,like mental retardation,downs syndrome,or any type of deformity to the body.I suggest you don't smoke or drink at all until you find out for sure.

Another thing I want to tell you. . I know you've probably already heard this before, but it is so important and I didn't listen until just recetly. I know you already must know about STD's and all but please please please hun be careful.I know condoms suck and it feels so much better without one,but is it really worth catching herpes or aids or something?And keep in mind that condoms don't always protect you from them.You can still catch Chlymidia, herpes,gonnorreah,(sp?),anything, the condom just lessens the chance. I was told several times to use a condom and the past few boyfriends I haven't which was the stupidest choice in the world(and i'm 21 years old).I just broke up with my ex a couple of months ago but we had sex a couple of times after we broke up,now I have some sort of infection and have to go to the gynocologist on Monday.Its scary thinking I might have something from him.Who knows if he cheated on me and who he has slept with but now it doesn't matter cause I could have something. Its just so scary and I don't want anyone else to have to go through that.I know its not cool to ask someone if they've been tested, but be protective of your body,its the only one you have and once you get something,you wont get a second chance and there is no cure. If you want to chat or anything my e-mail is Fairy_Jeans21@yahoo[dot]com.I might be able to give you some more support and help through e-mail.

can someone help me? i had two periods one on the 6th that lasted nearly a week and the other on the 27th of the same month, they both felt very same. buu i wanted to make sure that i wasnt pregnant. it came back negative. this month i have had unprotected sex and now i still havent seem to have come on and its now the 29th. i feel bloated, feeling sick and weeing a lot. could that be a cause for concern. im 17 and would really like someone to tell me what can i do? would be much appreciated!

i would love to help I'm almost in your situation I'm 16 and worried i am pregnant, think I'm having signs but not sure if they really are what i think and I'm freaking out too girl!

HI CAN SOMEONE HELP ME im 16 and i had unprotected sex 5 times within the last two weeks, he doesnt do drugs or drink or smoke ciggs so i dont think his sperm is bad. but im not on any birth control nd he came inside me all but two times. im wasnt expecting my period until next week. but today it came early. but theres really not that much blood at all when usually my period is heavy. i havent even used a whole regular tampon all day. but it hasnt bee steady blood, sometimes its little discharges like light brown or light pink, sometimes there is blood that comes like a discharge. my breasts havent been so sore that it bothers me a whole lot but if i touch them they are kindof sensitive. i havent felt much sickness other than on the bus 2 days ago i got really hot and my mouth watered and i thot i was really going to throw up. then yester day i felt good all day until i layed down last night and the same thing happened that happened on the bus. Also this person (im just going to be honest) the first time we had sex I was high and let it happen. ivce nown him for a while but didnt have feelings for him.. now i do.. and i dont knwo why i dont want them because im in love withe someone else. is it possible to become attached to the babys daddy if you get pregnant? or is this my mind? i dont know what to do. i dont want to tell my mom until im sure im probably pregnant, we dont have money for a test and i dont know if these are actual syptoms or if im paranoid, help please.

also i havent noticed any bloating or any size change but he did, he just randomly lifted my shirt, and said , it looks bigger, but is it possible to start bloating and getting a little tight at the bottom of your tummy if your only 1 week or 2 weeks pregnant at the most? and about the sickness on the buss and in bed, that went away within five minutes everytime.