can a girl cum at age 14?

who has the right to put an age on when a girl should have sex????the boy wants what the body wants, and as for why you can't have an orgaism is because your mate is not taking the time with yu, it takes a woman a bit long than a man, ask him to take about 5 min or so with you while you just lay back and enjoy, get into the feeling

Totally agree with you. A girl should be able to have sex when she wants to, NOT when parents or the law or stupid society decides for the girl when it is appropriate for her to have sex. Any girl who has reached puberty should be able to have sex because that is her birth right.
You are right. A lot of foreplay before the guy even thinks of penetrating you. Make sure you are having an orgasm through fingering and oral sex and when you are having an orgasm or have had a few then let him penetrate you.
This is why I keep saying that preparation is so important. Read up, masturbate, learn your body and what things please you sexually and guide the guy to do those things when you are having foreplay.

I'm 14 and I can cum. It's only masturbation for me Rn tho. I can pass for 18 tho, my body has already pretty much mutured. 34-B cup and curves and I'm 5`8 so Ya. But if you have problems it's probably bc you
havnt matured yet or he just doesn't turn you on that much smh. Hope I helped.

No 13 is rape

I’m pretty sure having sex at 14 isn’t right :). Im quite young for this topic (sadly they taught us “it” in fifth grade) but even I know that no one should lose their virginity at 14. That’s just foolish and downright disgusting. One of the people in the comments mentioned the fact that you should save your virginity for your husband. Not some stupid male that you meet on the street that you’ll forget about in a day. Virginity is something priceless and can never be brought back. I am a rule follower and I believe everyone should be one if they intend on not getting in trouble. I know that you must be above 16 to have sexual activity so I suppose you should keep it that way. :)

Oh what kind of restrictive advice is this.
Okay so you save yourself for your husband but what if your husband has had sex before on numerous occasions and is not a virgin?
Your sexuality is your birthright. What you are doing, is responding to all the social priming by the adults in your life who want you not to have sex. That choice should be yours and not dictated by someone who thinks that they have power over you and believe they can force you to do as they wish.
Sex is fun and enjoyable and virginity is nothing but a situation of "lack of use" mostly because of circumstances and sometimes by choice.
Virginity is priceless only because society, religion, customs, backgrounds etc etc have put a value on it. There is nothing virtuous about preserving your virginity.
I believe you should be free to enjoy your sexuality and enjoy it freely without stigma, guilt or parental pressure not to lose it.
Who ever told you that you must be 16 to have sex?? Goodness me!! I cant believe your naivety. I was almost 13 when I started having sex and I really enjoyed the first experience with my boyfriend who was many many years older and who gave me the most memorable experience of a lifetime. He was a great lover and an extremely educated and mature guy. I lost my virginity to him and he never once got me into trouble. I didnt know much about condoms, the pill, birth control etc etc. Being much older he knew a lot of stuff and made sure I didnt fall pregnant. Looking back now we took a lot of risks but I felt very safe with him. I trusted him and I liked him a lot.

then why can u buy condoms at any age

Because the government hasn't got around to ruling that part of your life yet.

Thats your choice not to lose your virginity. But you cant make it a rule for all girls and then look down on them and call it foolish and disgusting. It is individual choice how one handles their own sexual needs and sexuality and no one has any right over the other to dictate how and when and with whom they have sex with. Some girls are more confident than others and the attractive ones will find relationships and will want to have sex. Nothing wrong with those girls following their instincts as long as they are prepared and dont get into trouble with pregnancy or STDs.
There is nothing right or wrong about having sex at 14. It is a choice and some girls NOT all girls will want to have sex early. I dont think anyone should judge them or s*** shame them.
You may be a rule follower but others are not. There is no rule for sex other than a man made and society generated imposition. That is wrong biologically and instinct does not and will never follow artificial man made rules.

I had sex at 9 sooo I'm a girl

I was 11 an could cum from masterbation I'm a girl

It is possible for you to cum but you must learn as you may not do it naturally. First, many boys cum quickly so a girl has no chance for long stimulation which leads to climax. The answer is for a girl, any girl over 12, to practice by stimulating their button or "clit" by rubbing it and see what happens. If you rub and it starts to feel good then continue to stimulate until you have your first climax. If you have one you can have many more but it takes time to learn to climax with your bf. And he must be patient to give you time to be stimulated. It is often a team effort. If your bf is mature enough maybe he can practice oral sex on you and that might be helpful if done right. Remember that the clit must be stimulated by tongue or finger or vibrator. Different girls have different experience. As you practice your clit will be more sensitive so you can progress quicker. But, be patient as any girl can climax with practice.

Great advice. I think it is very important that a girl has an orgasm/climax before the guy penetrates her. Clitoral stimulation is so very very important and like the other person mentioned it is very important to have a guy who will make you aroused and will take the trouble of making sure you have numerous orgasms before he penetrates you. Thats why have a mature older guy is extremely helpful here.
You could try rubbing your clit a lot and making yourself orgasm/climax. Just do it till you really reach your peak. You will know when that happens because the pleasure is intense and you wont want to stop. You could continue to rub your clit and have multiple orgasms and prolonged ones too.
We girls are lucky because we can have prolonged multiple orgasms unlike guys who cant ejaculate ( the surrogate for a male orgasm) multiple times in succession, seconds apart.
So keep trying and practicing. Important to enjoy sex. There is nothing wrong and dont feel guilty about doing it.

Great. I started masturbating when I was 8 or 9 and I enjoyed the sensations but I didnt know if I could say I cummed. By the time I was 11 I started using objects inside me but I got the most pleasure from rubbing my clit. My first sexual relationsip was when I was turning 13ish and it was the most awesome experience a girl could ever have. My bf was a lot lot older and I was so lucky to have him to give me my first experience.

Probably your 19 year old bf cums quickly. I often takes more time for a female to climax. The secret is for you to practice without your bf so you will understand the process that your body is able to participate. To practice alone use a dildo or your fingers and rub your clit until you reach orgasm. If you practice you will be able to respond properly.