dating younger girls

Hi! Well, there's nothing wrong in men dating younger women and women dating younger man, as long as it's legal. :-D So it's perfectly fine for a 19yr to date a 15yr old.

If a guy is over 17, a girl of 15 would be called a San Quentin Quail most anywhere in the US. Meaning you are asking to go to prison. It's ILLEGAL (felony) for an adult (usually 18 or over) to have sex with a girl who is below the age of consent. In most states the age of consent is 16. It is called statutory rape. There are only a handfull of states where 15 would be legal.

Yes, I agree with you Njoy. When I wrote "dating" I was thinking more of "holding hands and kissing", old-fashioned type of dating :-D In my country a lot of 15 year old girls are openly dating older boys and no one gets arrested for that, but of course, every state/country has its own laws which should be followed and respected.

I know, April. That's exactly what I thought when I first read the post. Then I thought about the reality of being 19. Actually any boy over 12. No matter how much I respected any girl I dated I always wanted to fondle what was inside those clothes. Somehow that does not lead to celibacy once the hormones have kicked in. As I thought about it more I asked just what is the possibility of a platonic relationship? My dirty old man's mind answered ----- Z-E-R-O. And you can't blame it all on the boy because a 15 YO girl is interested in the same thing a boy is. On one of my earliest dating experiences, I was 16 and she was 15, sitting in a drive in movie in the rain so everyones windows were all fogged up and the celibacy police were staying inside the snackbar. She kept putting my hand in her crotch while I was attempting to do what my mother had told me --- don't touch.

Oh yes they keep dating in my country too. Apparently there is no law than can stop humans from he-ing and she-ing no matter what the overseers say. The things I/we did when I was 19 and dating a 15 year old girl would have put me in prison for life if we'd been caught. She couldn't keep her hands off my rocket and I couldn't keep my face out of her crotch. Actually she wouldn't let me. She grabbed me by the ears and shoved my face right where in she wanted it, and kept a tight grip on my head for hours. Back then in the state we were in, that kind of sex would get you a striped suit no matter how old you were, married or not.

Oh Njoy, now I can't stop laughing! I can perfectly see that scene. And your mother telling you "don't touch!" and you nodding your head...

That girl was a beast...I wonder where is she now.

Now if your wondering if its wrong or weird, no... I look at it this way, me and my girlfriend have been going out for 4 years, I'm 21 right now, and she just turned 18, the only thing I have noticed with such an age gap like with my g/f, she acts extremely immature, doesnt listen, and she still feels the world should do things for her. Now where I live, legal age of consent is 18 meaning any persons under the age of 18 with a person of 18 is considered statutory rape if sexual activity is happening, they also enforce the law for those under 18 such as a 17yo with a 14yo, or what they have to say a 2year or more age difference while under the age of 18. But other than that, I have no problem with it, age is just a number really look at it that way, if people are of the opinion with your choice, tell them to back off.

April O. wrote:

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She kept putting my hand in her crotch while I was attempting to do what my mother had told me --- don't touch.

Oh Njoy, now I can't stop laughing! I can perfectly see that scene. And your mother telling you "don't touch!" and you nodding your head...
That girl was a beast...I wonder where is she now.

Didn't seem too funny to me at the time April. :cry: But looking back from this end now, things that happened years ago DO seem pretty funny to me too. They just weren't too amusing at the time.

I lost her after 2 dates. Apparently she found a boy who WOULD touch. That was at the beginning of Summer vacation. When we met again at school in the Fall she was still friendly but wouldn't go out with me. However her younger sister absolutely hated my ass for what I did(n't) do to her sister. Unfortunately she died of pneumonia in her first year at college while I was in the Army.

I learned that a boy should never listen to his mother and my next dating experience when I was 19 went much better as you already know. Alas, she was a colonel's daughter and I was a private and her mother hated me because I wasn't an officer ---- and because I had a mustache, and false teeth. I think those things were an advantage. I know her daughter loved the mustache and my gums never scratched her labia. You didn't think I left them in while making love ---- did you? I kept a tongue lock on her for 1 1/2 years before her mother won and she began dating a 2d lieutenant. Maybe he had a longer tongue