I am 18 years old and just began using the birth control pill (I am almost to the inactive pills in the fourth week). My last period was December 15 and I began the pills on December 21. My boyfriend and I had sex and used a condom (with a spermicide on it) on December 25, and he did finish inside me. However, he always feels bad when I don't get to finish so we switched positions and kept going from behind for maybe 1 minute. (I had no idea he had already finished and he told me about it later...its the least to say I was not pleased with his choice to do this).
When we were done I looked at the condom and there was semen in it; it was on the underside of the his shaft near the tip all together in a puddle like it usually is at the tip, only a little farther down.
My concern is if any of the semen could have leaked out the bottom of the condom while we continued, even though "doggy style" does not really put the base of his shaft inside of me. I was only on day 5 of my birth control, but I have yet to miss a pill or be late in taking one at all since I've started.
I normally have a 30 or 31 day cycle, and based on my cervical fluid i usually ovulate on day 16 or 17. This month I don't think I did ovulate because I noticed no normal change in fluid, so I am guessing the pill is coming into effect?
I must mention that lately I've been feeling like I have a nervous stomach, but I'm pretty sure this is either from me stressing over this (and doing constant internet research) or being effected by my pill.
I don't think there is a huge reason to freak out...and I know I am supposed to just wait until my period comes (or does not) and then take a test.
But can anyone tell me how risky what happened was to being pregnant? What is the likely hood that his semen leaked out of the condom from the base and into me? And that my pills have not been effective at all?
I would really like to just calm down about this, that's all.
When we were done I looked at the condom and there was semen in it; it was on the underside of the his shaft near the tip all together in a puddle like it usually is at the tip, only a little farther down.
My concern is if any of the semen could have leaked out the bottom of the condom while we continued, even though "doggy style" does not really put the base of his shaft inside of me. I was only on day 5 of my birth control, but I have yet to miss a pill or be late in taking one at all since I've started.
I normally have a 30 or 31 day cycle, and based on my cervical fluid i usually ovulate on day 16 or 17. This month I don't think I did ovulate because I noticed no normal change in fluid, so I am guessing the pill is coming into effect?
I must mention that lately I've been feeling like I have a nervous stomach, but I'm pretty sure this is either from me stressing over this (and doing constant internet research) or being effected by my pill.
I don't think there is a huge reason to freak out...and I know I am supposed to just wait until my period comes (or does not) and then take a test.
But can anyone tell me how risky what happened was to being pregnant? What is the likely hood that his semen leaked out of the condom from the base and into me? And that my pills have not been effective at all?
I would really like to just calm down about this, that's all.
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hey the chances of you getting pregnate this way are basically 0 so you dont have anything to worry abiout right now... plus while i dont believe the pills are fully affective right now they should be starting to take affect.... wait about another week and take a test...
good luck and relax :-)
good luck and relax :-)
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So you don't think there is a chance that sperm leaked from the base to inside of me? And I think the pills may be starting to work...but I just want to be sure...
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Ok so I'm extremely paranoid...i'm assuming its the birth control pills acting in my system...and I'm probably imagining it... but my breasts can periodically be alittle tender. This, however, has been occurring since literally the day we had sex, and most likely before as well. And its not noticeable, only after I push or squeeze them. And i have a nervous stomach when i get stressed...so I don't think these are symptoms that anything is wrong other than the hormones from birth control.
Either way, how soon can I test? Because to allieviate the stress sooner is better than later.
Anyone else's thoughts?
Either way, how soon can I test? Because to allieviate the stress sooner is better than later.
Anyone else's thoughts?
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Ok this morning I felt kinda nauseous but was only spitting up stuff... my boyfriend is sick however.
I think this is too early to have morning sickness...right?
I think this is too early to have morning sickness...right?
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