Can someone please tell me if i can get pregnant this way? And is this my period or something else?

Dear guest,

 If your bf ejaculated and some got into your vagina, there is always the chance of pregnancy. I think your stress is causing your period to play tricks on you. Stress can do some wacky things to our mind and body, including delaying our periods.

You are not being silly at all. You have a serious concern and that's what i am here for. Don't ever feel silly to ask us questions. I say, wait it out and see if your period comes, just calm down. If it goes past a week, i would do a pregnancy test, tho i DON'T think that you are pregnant. Maybe you don't want to hear this but i feel compelled to tell you anyway. If you were my daughter i would tell you. Sounds like you and your bf are getting a little to close for comfort, do you agree? And you are right when you say that you do not need all the stress and worry every month, that sucks for sure. Have you ever considered going on birth control? Just a suggestion and please don't be upset by my asking. Planned Parenthood is a wonderful place to start. The are 100% discreet and they do all sorts of things besides prescribing birth control. You can even get free condoms, who gives away free stuff anymore?

Just think about it for a minute. If you want to continue to do what your doing, why not be protected? If you have made up your mind once and for all that you are not going to mess around anymore, that is great too, but you have to abide by it. We have a tendency to get ourselves into situations that we just don't have the strenght or the want (if u know wat i mean) to get out of. Just letting you know that PP is there, and they are very good, and they don't notify your mom/dad at all.

Good luck and come back to let us know what's going on, or just come back anyways!

bbfeet, thanks.  But I still haven't gotten it yet! And there are only three more days left in this month. I really really really feel like its coming but every time I think I'm getting it I go to the bathroom and nothing!! I have been getting cramps snice monday.  And I haven't been stressing, thats what reallt makes me worry. I'm actually being reallt calm about this because I know stress can make me late. But still nothing. But I really feel like its coming but there just isn't a blood. I don't know what to do.

And your right about the planned parenthood but I just don't really have to time or the way to go there without my parents knowing.

In order for you to have gotten pregnant, your bf would have had to cum on your butt and either left it to run down to your vagina or wiped and pushed it towards it.

Have you any other symptoms? Sore breasts/nipples, unusual amt. of discharge, feeling tired, hungry more than normal, headaches, pukey? If you know that your bf didn't get any semen into your vagina, i don't think your pregnant. Your period will come.

Do you have a friend who could take you? Do you have sisters? Are you close with any of them? Any brothers? Sometimes our brothers can be our best friends. If your going to continue doing what has gotten so freaked, you need to absolutly make the time to get on some kind of birth control. Have you taken a pregnancy test?

No he didn't do that because I wouldn't let him.

And I haven't been having any symptoms like that.

I could maybe talk to some of my friends becuse some of them do have cars. But neither my brother or my sister would take me without telling my mom.

No I haven't taken a test yet. I too afraid of what the result will be. And even if it is negative. With my bad luck if my mom found it she would kill me!!

Do you really think I need to take one?

Mornin guest,

     As long as you know that semen didn't get close enough to find it's way into your vagina, then your ok. I don't think that you are pregnant just by what you have said in your previous post, but i am not a doctor. How late are you or do you have a few more days left till your scheduled period. Sometimes our periods do weird things and what used to be regular and scheduled all of a sudden isn't. There is no explanation why our periods just go off track.

How old are you and how long have you been getting your period? If you haven't had your period that long, it takes a good year before one gets a schedule that they can rely on, while other girls can never figure out when it's coming.

Now it sounds like your starting to freak a little, that's ok. I am not scolding you but let this be a reminder to you. Just sit tight and wait until you totally miss your period. Then give it a few more days after that. You say your calm, but your mind is always working and thinking. Your brain sends signals to every part of your body. It really isn't such a bad idea to get on birth control. Not only will it regulate your periods, but in the event that you get into another situation like this one, you won't have to worry.

Keep me posted hon, i'm here for you.

Well that's kind of the problem. He usually never does. But one time I think he was actually touching it. It was only for a second then I made him stop. But he didn't cum before that of after that. But I know that there is always a chance of precum having sperm in it. 

Yeah you are so right because that has happened to me before, when some months I'll get my periods at the end of the month but then the next few months its at the start of the month.

I'm 17 and I've been getting my periods snice I was like 11 I think. No older than 12.

But the real thing thats making me worry is just that I've never gone this long feeling like my period is coming but I don't get anything.

Although now that I think about it, this did kind of happen last month when I was having my very first scare. But I don't think it was this long.

I guess I am starting to freak a little. Again your right because even though I haven't been pacing the room and pulling my hair out I have been thinking about this non stop for the past few days.

But today ever snice I woke up I've been having bad cramps and these are more familar to me because their coming every few minutes and they are more painful than the ones I was getting a few days ago. Also last night I was getting a little emotional and felt like crying and I always get like that the day or two before my period. So I'm starting to feel a little better now. And I'm going to try very hard to keep myself busy and not think so much about everything.

Oh and also do you know how much the birth control pills cost?

 

Dear Guest,

    I am 99.9% sure that you will see your period within the next day or 2, i will keep my fingers crossed for you. Gnawing cramps are a sure sign that it's on the way.

I am not sure how much birth control pills are these days. You can call your local Planned Parenthood and just ask a few questions. Explain that you are 17 and that you have had a few scares along the way. Ask to speak to a nurse and then fire some questions at her. They are very comforting and never judgemental. I think if you get your pills thru them they are cheaper. They deal with many many young girls who have little money or no money at all. Before they actually put you on the pill, you will have to have an exam. It's cake, really. Just a quick internal to make sure everything is where it's supposed to be. The doctor will speak to you regarding the best birth control method for you, probably pills i would think. I don't recommend the Depo shot, i have heard a lot a bad feed back tho some girls swear by it. Once again, this is your decision to make.

Please don't assume that i am pushing you into getting on birth control. I think that you have had a few scares and i wouldn't want to see you get upset every month. Getting on birth control is strictly your decision. I went on the pill at a young age and i was pleasantly surprised. It took 2 different scripts before i found the one that agreed with me, but it was good there after. Not only did it protect me from an un timely pregnancy, but my periods were regular like clock work. No cramps, no pms, nothing. They lasted about 3 days and were pretty light.

So...once again, keep in touch and let me know what's going on.

Thankyou so much you've been so much help! I actually got my period like 10mins after I wrote my last post. And I will talk to the planned parenthood. I really should get on the pill because if I'm this worried now. I don't even want to think about what I'll be doing to myself when i actually do have sex. But I don't think that will happen anytime soon.

I don't think that you're pushing me into doing anything. My mom has actually told me that if i was having sex or even thinking about it I should talk to her and she would take me to get the birth control pills. But its just so embrassing!! And I wouldn't even know how to begin. I just don't want her to be upset with me. And the same with my sister she's 26 and she actually is on birth control. But again I wouldn't know how to start to explain and it's kind of embrassing to talk about even with her.

So any suggestions about that? Then I'll leave you alone I swear.

Yay....i am so happy for you. See, i told you things would be ok. It sounds like you have a "cool" mom, so just bring it up to her. I went thru the same thing with my 16 year old, who is now 33. She brought it to my attention one night while i was making dinner. I took a deep breath, swallowed hard and sat down with her, i knew this day was coming. Two weeks later she was on the pill. No mom likes to hear that their daughter is interested in having sex, and what a wonderful world it would be if all of our children were virgins on their wedding night? Many times, it just doesn't happen that way and it's ok, really. Birth control would also help with your irratic periods, mention that to her as well. She will understand, remember she was a young girl at one time too.

Never feel embarassed to talk to "mom", we are not monsters and we do get it, We just want what is best for our children, that's all. You sound like a sweet and charming young lady with a good head on her shoulders. You sound like you know the difference between right and wrong. Approaching your mom would be the right thing to do, then you won't have to get birth control behind her back. If your family has insurance, that will pay for your doctor visit and your bc. Your mom does not want to be a grama yet, i'm sure. Once you break the ice, the convo should flow freely, you'll be ok, i promise, and so will mom.

Good luck my friend, and let me know how it went with "the talk". It was my pleasure to help you.

i think i will be having a baby to and my brother did that to me to an i was only like 6 years old when he did it and i am wondering if i will have a baby to and i am only 9

HI
Me and my boyfriend well we kind of had sex he only went in me about two time then stop without a condom
He didn't cum or any thing
But he also rub his penis in between my number cheeks
And came in between them I was scared that it would go down the front
He did that 2 time's
But the thing is that not the long again I just got off my period and I won't be getting it any time soon
And I'm just super scared can I get prevenant from that ?
I'm sorry if you really cant understand
But please help me

Help me and my partner had sex for the first time after a medical abortion obviously we waited till I was ready. We used a condom but I felt semen run down the condom and it ended up in my butt cheeks he had a load still at the top of the condom. My question is can I get pregnant from this I waited for a hour after sex to clean up using apple cider vinegar.

I'm 27 year old woman. Me and my boyfriend do nit have penetrative sex. What we do is he puts his penis in between my butt cheeks while I'm lying in front of him and then he cums. (we don't use condoms since we never perform insertion) I have been having pretty regular periods for like 2 years now but recently this month my period is like 3 days late and I'm really freaking out. The last time we had this was on the 15th last month. Is is possible to get pregnant this way?