Hello all~
So... my boyfriend and I were, well, having some alone time on the 4th of June. We've had this issue before- where we just do touching, no real sex whatsoever, and then I freak out. This time, we actually used a condom when rubbing around, because my boyfriend knows of my paranoia. We took it off for a few minutes and disposed of it, and then continued to rub around a bit. (This involved touching each others genitals, him poking around near, NOT IN, the entrance to my vagina) If anything he went in a centimeter or less... not sex. He claims to have checked his penis for pre-ejaculatory fluid before touching me, because I was paranoid about that before too. We stopped soon after that. Not once during this time did he ejaculate! So, if anything (probably not), only a bit of precum came in contact with me. My boyfriend also assures me that no 'leftover sperm' was left from a previous ejaculation in his penis, because he doesn't masturbate/hadn't ejaculated in a long time/had urinated since then.
Why am I freaking out, might you ask? First of all, I am an extremely paranoid teenager who has abided by all the 'sex' rules thus far and cannot fathom pregnancy. It would ruin my life. Second of all, this is not the first time I have freaked out. My period, although a few days 'late', would always come.
My period was 'due' about a week ago... but I'm not positive that means anything, because my periods are QUITE irregular. However, I had assumed they were getting more regular because they had been in the last few months. I even did an ovulation fertility calculation- on the day I goofed off with my bf, I wasn't even fertile... or so it seems.
However- this is what I know. My last period started May 14th, it is now June 18th. I am getting increasingly worried. I have white discharge, but that is common when I begin to have a period (although I thought I noticed a lump??)
Another note: I did take a pregnancy test about 2-3 days ago, one of the cheaper brands you find at walgreens. However I followed all the directions correctly, and came up with a negative. I have a test left that I am planning on using soon. So far, all signs point to a late period. Am I just being extremely paranoid? It's eating me up... Advice is greatly appreciated!!! Thank you~
~ A concerned teenage girl
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it is very plausible that you are paranoid, nothing in what you have explained would consist in pregnancy, since you are still in your teens, your periodes have not yet become regular, even if it seems they are, it changes quickly, also if you are that "paranoid" i would sugest stopping your oral sex until you are mentaly ready for the consiquences that sometimes occure, aswell paranoiya and stress can cause for your periode to be late.
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Chances of you being pregnant are slim - but not impossible, which is why you need to keep your eye on it for awhile. It's good your using all of the precautions for not getting pregnant...as many teens just don't really take the time to do that and end up with an unwanted pregnancy. Something to keep in mind in the future (it's too late to use it this time) is the Morning After pill....it only works for a few days after having sexual intercourse/getting cum/precum inside of you. The sooner you take it the better it works. The only downside to the Morning After pill is that it is on the more expensive side. Make sure you keep using condoms, and all the other precautions. Stay safe!
Good luck, hope everything turns out well(:
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