Hi guys I am 24 years old virgin and I was having trouble getting erect during sex. It happened twice. I am looking forward to hear some advices and tips so I can perform better next time. I am feeling like it is hard to turn me on. Last year, I was trying to have sex but my penis didn't fully erect and I couldn't put it in so I try to play with it for awhile, but instead I ejaculated. I have tried for the second time that night, but the same thing happen to me. I was so devastated and I haven't tried to have sex for a year. Until last week, I met this girl in a party. We were drinking a lot and I was pretty drunk. We chatted for awhile and she agreed to go out with me. But the thing was that I didn't any boner at all even though I was excited to get her to go out with me. Then we were off to a hotel and we were cuddling. I was about to kiss her but she didn't allow to kiss neither touch her boob. I didn't force so I just prepare to put it in. BUT I didn't erect at all, like it was in its smallest size ever. I didn't erect the whole time. That night I didn't do anything to her and I was so embarrassed to fail for the second time. Please give some advices about what happened and how to avoid it. I really need some solutions right because I am so depress right now. Thank you guys
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Hi Kevin,
It's very common for a male to have trouble getting erect, especially the first few times. Anxiety will kill an erection. Being drunk will make it harder to get an erection.
Stop worrying. If you continue to worry that you'll not get an erection - you won't. The next time you are having sex try to relax. If you can't get erect then focus on HER needs. Just let your body go along for the ride. Sooner or later you'll get erect.
Basically don't try so hard.
Good luck.
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