Hello. I'm 32 yr old male and I'm seriously worried about my sexual health problem I have never had problems with my erection.
But, I wish I could say this now. I'm having big problems with maintaining my erection. I do sex first time but I can't go for second time because I can't erect my peni, I really wanna do sex 3-4 times a night with my gf
Please tell what could be the cause of my “disorder”?
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Unfortunately the older we get the harder it gets to maintain the erection for the length of time we could when we were young and continue on for the length of time or get another erection directly after. It's age. You will just have to wait awhile and during that time you wait, pleasure your gf orally - go down on her vagina and give her a orgasm which in turn will turn you on again and give you an erection (at least it should) and you can go on to have sex again, just remember the amount of sperm ejaculated declines the more often you have sex so you won't shoot so much out again. Hope this helps and remember it's normal and nothing is wrong with you or your penis, it just comes with age
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Ok you are right but I m feeling so embrassed infronr of her I wanna do at least sex 2-3 times a night to satisfy her and I cum always first she don't and she tells me to do mine as well but I can't so wht should I do . I used to do sex 4-5 times a night. But not naw so plz could u help me
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I agree with Lizardqueen; you are completely normal. Every guy has a refractory period before he can get it up again – this is not a case of erectile dysfunction, just your body needing some time to marshal the troops again for another round. Your girlfriend would probably appreciate some special attention while you wait for things to get going again, or she might even enjoy a little cuddling. If you are able to go multiple times per evening, then congratulations! And I would suggest trying a penis health cream like Man1 Man Oil to keep the skin in shape after all that friction and exercise – overdoing it without replenishing the natural moisture and nutrients in the skin cells can lead to dryness, irritation, soreness and even loss of sensation.
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Thanks Alex and lizard I understood wht u guys said but can u tell me that if I have done sex once in a night then I can't erect my peni second time same night it's gonna erect next day so what should I do for second time I understand that u said our body needs time but my peni take so long it's erect on after 3-4hrs and as I said I wanna do sex at least 3 times in a night so suggest me what to do
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Pleasure your gf while waiting for your penis to go erect again. Or, if it is really bothersome to you, see your doctor for erectile pills and you should be able to achieve an erect penis for 4 - 8 hours and pleasure your gf all night. Now saying that, have you communicated with your gf and you know this is what SHE wants as well, that is a long night of sexual pleasure - just make sure she wants this as well and not just you.
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Thanks liz just wanna tell u that me and my wife's age difference is like almost 9 yrs, she is 23 and i m 32 so could u pls tell me that how can i manage my healthy sex life, and is there any side effects of erection pills, and how many times can I do sex at night if I take these erection pills, does Viagra is good
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Well, erection pills can have some side effects but the side effects are different for everyone as they effect everyone differently, your doctor would give you a good idea on that. My sister and her husband have a couple more years apart than you and your wife so that is not uncommon to have that many years apart, good for you to have a young wife but now you feel you need to keep with up with her. Am I right? Are you two in love or was it an arranged marriage? You can have sex as many times in a night as YOU can do, if you can get up 20 times in a night, good for you but obviously that's a bit excessive and one of you or both will get friction burn before you got up to that many times. Viagra works good, so I've heard from others on this site, and you could possibly be able to achieve an erection for 4 or more hours while on Viagra and during that time you can be pleasured as often as comfortable for you and her, be it 2 times or 4 times or more. Good luck and hope this helps
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Thanks u so much queen. Queen as I said my wife's age 23 and my age is 32 so does it matter in sexual healthy life.
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No, the age difference doesn't matter in sexual activity at all, in fact your wife should have a healthy libido right now as you too. The older you both get the sexual desire lessens but if you both work at it as me and my hubby do ours has not declined at all, in fact it has strengthened even more the longer we are married and the more we play around with our sexual desires and fantasies.
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Hi Queen , one thing more when I do sex with my wife I always ejaculate first and my wife becomes so angry with me she said to me u think always yours not abt me. But I can't control and she ejaculate very late.as we are newly married she told the whole story to her mom and you know what what she asked me she asked me that may b you have a desease because u always ejaculate first . And one thing more her cousin she's married to and she told her that when she got married her husband had a sex 4-5 times at a night. She got upset and she blamed me and tells me so many things and naw I m in overseas and m going back in February so tell me what preparations should I have to d0, thanks waiting 4 ur reply
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You must masturbate, right? If not, you should. It's healthy and normal. Don't just masturbate for the sake of masturbating, when you feel the sensation of the orgasm/come, stop and go do something else and get your mind off of it for awhile, and then start masturbating again and repeat. This will increase your time and length to ejaculation so that you will not ejaculate so quickly. Also, when you have a hot, young wife how can not ejaculate so fast? But, work on that technique while you are away and surprise her when you return - remember absence makes the heart grow fonder. Also, seduce her by sending her poetry in the mail (that you have written and not copied) and send letters (old fashioned I know but still shows you are trying). Hope you understand where and why I give this advice
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I do musturbate babe I started when I was so young.i do watch p**n Like when i was 13 yrs old . And I had a gf before 6 yrs and we do s** so may times with her some times 4-5 times a night and I had record as well 8 times I know u don't believe me but I had. But naw I can't do anything I m in Australia I see p**n , I do masturbate but do u think I have to do s*x as well. U know that what I m trying to say. Bye
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