hello I am 25yrs old mother of a 10yrs old boy and I need some or any advice. I have been having the wost pain for 3 1/2 yrs now.It first started 6 mths after doing an abortion,Ihad sex with my boyfriend and in the middle during sex I felt alot of cramping so we stop and I got really sick vomit all over my bed and pass out,the pain lasted for about 20 min and then I felt well once again.I continue to feel pain somtimes I get a flu like body pain and lot of discharge.I have been to the hospital and my family doctor on many diffrent ocasions and I was told every time that I need to get arouse before having sex.I explained to my doctor that I get these cramp whitout haveing sex.There are time I stay in bed because these cramps are so painful. Now I my sex life has deminish into once per month because the pain is not worth the reward.I am so desprate I know there is somthing wrong but I can't convine my doctor.Plaese any advice will help.