My girlfriend and I are going through a "dry patch". We use to have sex all the time until like 2 months ago where sex started to hurt her. she went to the doctors and they said everything was fine.. she only gets pain when we have sex, i guess the pain is in the curvix area. she discribes the pain as sharp stomach pain which makes her feel as if she needs to throw up.
If the doctor says everything is fine, then what do we do about it, considering that its not all fine.. I wouldnt say im "hugh" but bigger than average. so could that be the reason why?
I wouldnt force her for sex, but im the only one that initiates it now, and i do tend to get rejected 95% of the time. it effect my self esteam.
I just dont get why everything was okay with the doctor but the pain with her has only been for a couple months when everything has been fine for the 2 years before that.
If the doctor says everything is fine, then what do we do about it, considering that its not all fine.. I wouldnt say im "hugh" but bigger than average. so could that be the reason why?
I wouldnt force her for sex, but im the only one that initiates it now, and i do tend to get rejected 95% of the time. it effect my self esteam.
I just dont get why everything was okay with the doctor but the pain with her has only been for a couple months when everything has been fine for the 2 years before that.
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Several issues are possible:
- if you're reaching the end of her womb (at the cervix) then that's like her smacking your nose with every thrust, kind of offputting
you can learn to enjoy the sensation of the entrance to her vagina wrapping around your head, and staying shallow
[the good news is from what you say, the pain in the stomach/cervix area, this is the easiest and simplest and is really a non-issue,
once you learn to be operate within the limits of her body]
- if it's your thickness, so that she's tight and has to stretch, that's asking her to have a baby every time, and that sucks
sorry dude, if that's the case, you're a big guy, she's a little un and if she says no, then no it is, sad as that may be for both of you
- if it's that she's not wet, then she's not totally into it
hopefully this doesn't apply, because now we're getting emotional
If she still wants you to be her partner, and would like to enjoy sex, try reassuring her that it doesn't have to be painful, by offering cunnilingus, being sensitive with fingers, bringing her off with your tongue and hand ... if she's young and used to enjoy it, then your paying attention to her like that should bring back her enthusiasm, just go easy on the penetration - some of the best sex, even penetrative, is when you're not moving - check it out.
- if you're reaching the end of her womb (at the cervix) then that's like her smacking your nose with every thrust, kind of offputting
you can learn to enjoy the sensation of the entrance to her vagina wrapping around your head, and staying shallow
[the good news is from what you say, the pain in the stomach/cervix area, this is the easiest and simplest and is really a non-issue,
once you learn to be operate within the limits of her body]
- if it's your thickness, so that she's tight and has to stretch, that's asking her to have a baby every time, and that sucks
sorry dude, if that's the case, you're a big guy, she's a little un and if she says no, then no it is, sad as that may be for both of you
- if it's that she's not wet, then she's not totally into it
hopefully this doesn't apply, because now we're getting emotional
If she still wants you to be her partner, and would like to enjoy sex, try reassuring her that it doesn't have to be painful, by offering cunnilingus, being sensitive with fingers, bringing her off with your tongue and hand ... if she's young and used to enjoy it, then your paying attention to her like that should bring back her enthusiasm, just go easy on the penetration - some of the best sex, even penetrative, is when you're not moving - check it out.
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