I have been seeing this guy for a while and now i am having problems of not enjoying sex cause i have the feeling to have to fart or have to go pee. I understand the vaginal "fart" which is not what i am experincing. I have never had this problem before with any of my other sex partners in the past. because i have the urge to fart or go the bathroom, I cant experience my orgams anymore. is there anything i can do to prevent this? also, could this be why cause my boyfriend is 6'0 and im 5'4 and he is "bigger then me"
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Honestly, if your in the middle of sex, tell him to pull out, roll over, go ahead and fart, laugh it off, kiss him long and hard, and tell him to shove it back inside of you. He'll probably laugh with you, and with his mind on sex he probably won't even notice.
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I have the exact same problem! I am so embarassed and I can't enjoy sex. Have you figured out a way to prevent this?
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I just started seeing someone new and was really uncomfortable because I felt the urge to pee and to fart. I just relaxed and decided if that happened, it would happen. Well, turns out it didn't happen because those muscles get all agitated before an orgasm and if you don't just relax you're not going to orgasm. So just relax. Most guys are painfully comfortable with bodily functions. We're the ones that are uptight. Honestly, the worst that will happen is that you'll fart and both have a great laugh about it. And if the 2 of you can't laugh about things like that, you're not right for each other.
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I totally agree. I used to feel a little awkward, but now I just say “Hun, please stop for a second I need to fart” and then I do it and we get back to business.
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I second that, I also stopped caring so much. if I need to fart I usually either just let it slip or if I need him to stop I tell him that I need to fart and he must stop for a moment. I never had any complaints.
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I know it is an old post, but I was actually just cchatting about this with one of my friends and then decided to google it. My friend is in a new relationship and is absolutely terrified of farting in front of her boyfriend especially during sex. I told her that I have lost count the number of times I did it. If it feels uncomfortable i just let it go. If we have sex after dinner I am usually quite gassy and my husband understands that I may need to fart at some point during our love making. Last time, I just told him to slow down cause I needed to fart. Did it and we we were back at it. It is really not a big deal. Women should be a bit more relaxed about their bodies.
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That gave me a good laugh!haha not in a laughing at you way but love is just so funny because we get so comfortable with eachother and we can say or do anything.
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LOL. My husband and I are the same. We have been married for so long that I feel totally comfortable around him. Whenever I feel an urge to fart during sex, and it happens frequently especially if we have sex after dinner, I just ask him to slow down a bit and I let it go. It is really not a big deal.
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I guess it must be a little awkward if you are having sex with someone new, but I do not see why this would be an issue in an established relationship. Many times when my wife and I are having sex I notice her passing gas. In some positions more than others. Neither of us bring any attention to it and it has never bothered me. Actually, I am very glad that she feels comfortable enough around me to not let it get in the way of our love making. The only time it was a little bit of an interruption was the time she needed to fart while I was going down on her. She was like, “please come up for a second, and I do not want to fart in your face”. So we giggled a bit about that, and then we were back at it.
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with each other to not care. When we have sex in the evening after dinner, I often feel a bit blotted and need to fart. Like the other poster said often “Babe, please stop for a moment I need to fart” does the trick. I do it and we are back at it.
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So I’ll tell a story me and my girl were really getting into it and I mean it was fast, it was hard, hot, wet, and her rear was just right on my pelvic area. ahh she felt so good bouncing it up and Down and then she just lets one rip.. I mean it was loud... it was obnoxious but at the same time I was like “babe that was hot” she was like “really?” And I said “babe yes believe me.” After telling her this instead of pausing we just continued till we orgasmed and that was probably one the greatest sex stories I’ll ever tell
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