I need help. I love to both give and recieve oral sex, but it seems lately that my hubby has the "pointy tongue syndrom". I have told him that I don't like it and prefer him to lick like he is eating an ice cream cone, but he still continues to do things his way. It has even gotten to the point where it is painful and I lose the mood. Any suggestions for how I can get him to be more gentlr and to lose the "pointy tongue"?
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Hate to say it, but if you start denying him the pleasure of licking and eating you, explaining that it's because he's being to pointy with the tip of his tongue, he may get the point.
Of course, I'd first recommend that you have a frank discussion with him about this, NOT in the bedroom, and NOT in a sexual situtuation. Perhaps at a dinner or other non-charged time, when you can get his attention and NOT have sex hanging in the balance.
It's always better to have these discussions when there is NO chance that you'll have sex right away... so that he can concentrate on what you're saying and not what he wants to hear or do.
Good luck.
PS: THere's a great book on this subject called "She Comes First". You might order a copy of the book for him, and a copy of "Tickle His Pickle" for you. And then agree to both read them completely before you engage in oral sex again. Both are available from Amazon.com and other sources.
Of course, I'd first recommend that you have a frank discussion with him about this, NOT in the bedroom, and NOT in a sexual situtuation. Perhaps at a dinner or other non-charged time, when you can get his attention and NOT have sex hanging in the balance.
It's always better to have these discussions when there is NO chance that you'll have sex right away... so that he can concentrate on what you're saying and not what he wants to hear or do.
Good luck.
PS: THere's a great book on this subject called "She Comes First". You might order a copy of the book for him, and a copy of "Tickle His Pickle" for you. And then agree to both read them completely before you engage in oral sex again. Both are available from Amazon.com and other sources.
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