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Im a 13 years old male and i would like to know how to masturbate the right way or right time or some tips of masturbate. Please help :(


      It doesn't matter when it is or where you are.If you are in the mood for masturbating,just do it.But be sure you are alone,if someone sees you,they can be embarrassed. You grab your penis with your hand,and move it up and down,some do it slowly,and some do it very fast.You must find your own tempo:)

      You can also use a lot of shampoo,when you take a shower,have shampoo in your hand,grab your penis and masturbate,the shampoo gives you a good feeling.Try it.And if you have an old big pillow or a madrass,cut it with a knife,and put on some lubricant,and so stick your penis inside, and imagine you that it is a vagina.Fell free to pm me for more tips.



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First of all make sure your alone then get yourself turned on by what ever means you need then when your erect lay on your bed and take your penis in your hand and grip it if you have and baby oil or olive oil put some on your hand your holding Your penis with as lubricant then start to stroke it up and down at what speed you find comfortable until you feel the urge to come then just let the feeling overcome you.
You can do the same in the shower but i wouldn't use shampoo as sometimes that can be to harsh on some peoples skin.
But never use oil as a lubricant with a condom as it breaks down the latex rubber and can cause then to leak or split.
Hope this helps and if you would like to know more just message me



I wish every teenager asked this question! Masturbation is how we explore our bodies and find out what feels good. It's also time when we can explore our thoughts and feelings as sexual beings. Believe it or not, there are better ways and not-so-good ways to masturbate. What determines that? Masturbation should enhance, or prepare you for, a partnered sex life. Some men masturbate in such a way that it begins to interfere or cause real physical issues with a partner.

First, be sure to take time for spending on yourself. Yes, there are times you just need to 'rub one out' to destress or relieve sexual tension, but for the most part, think of masturbation as YOU time. Make yourself feel good. Enjoy your body. Enjoy how you can make yourself feel. Keep masturbation a relaxed, safe, time for yourself.

Use Lube. the best lube is coconut oil - from the grocery store. It's good for your skin, it does not stain anything (it washes right out), it does not dry out and it is natural and not full of chemicals! As men age, their penis naturally loses sensation. Masturbating with a hot, dry, tight fist can hasten the process dramatically. Also, it just feels better!

Never rub your penis on anything like a bedsheet or something where the friction is really intense. That kind of dry, tough, hot masturbation can begin to take its toll by desensitizing your penis. There are many great ways to get inense sensation. Masturbation sleeves are a great start. Use a plastic bag with lube if you want to insert your penis into anything.

Dont rush things. Masturbating in a hurry can train your penis to ejaculate quickly. If you take your time and explore ways to be in control of when you ejaculate, you will have taken the first step to being a great lover. You also want to make sure your penis is fully engorged and erect as you masturbate. As you get older, this will be more important.

Make sure you never outgrow a partner's body! Don't train your penis to climax only to unrealistic stimulation. You always want to respond to the warmth and sensation of another person's body - mouth, vagina, anus.

Techniques?  Oh, there are many of them. Explore and discover them for yourself. Play with a lubed flaccid penis...see how that feels. Stroke a hard penis. Just rub the lubed head with your hand. Hold your hand still and thrust your penis into it...the list goes on. There are even web site devoted to masturbation techniques.

Above all, be safe. Don't put your penis in ANYTHING that you cannot control: Not a vacuum cleaner, a hole in anything like a wall, a child's toy, a swimming pool drain - I've had to deal with guys who did all these things. Don't put anything IN your penis. Be careful what you put on your penis -like lotions to increase sensations - really, stick to coconut oil.

DON"T TRY TO MAKE YOUR PENIS LARGER!!!  Average is good. And most men are average. 5-6" is the REAL average. you are 13? you're not done growing yet.

Enjoy your penis...and your WHOLE BODY. your whole body is a sex organ...explore the sensations you can find. Take care of your penis, enjoy it, be nice to it, be gentle with it, and it will give you a lifetime of enjoyment!




Just shove you thumb up your ass repeatedly… that will get you somewhere!



Masturbation is relaxing, pleasant, enjoyable, harmless, healthy, normal, and contributes to restful sleep if done before bedtime. Masturbation relieves pain from overfilled seminal vesicles. Frequent masturbation prevents wet dreams. Regular ejaculation is associated with better prostate health. Masturbation is a great stress reliever.


You may masturbate as much or as little as you wish. You may do it in any place where you have privacy. There is no upper or lower age limit for masturbation.


The internally lubricated movable nerve-laden foreskin and its gliding action is an important aid to masturbation.


Circumcision was introduced to unforeskin the penis and make it impossible to masturbate. It did not stop masturbation but it made it harder to do.


How you do it depends on whether you have an internally lubricated movable foreskin that glides up and down the shaft or whether you have been unforeskinned.


If you are foreskinned, then all you need to do is glide your foreskin back and forth. The foreskin is internally lubricated with lymphatic fluid and glides without friction. The numerous nerves inside the foreskin are stimulated by the motion and generate pleasurable sensations.


Long and vigorous masturbation can cause the foreskin to become edematous and swollen, which is painless and not a cause for alarm. The edema usually goes down within about 24 hours. Pulling back too hard is apt to stretch the frenulum and may tear it.


If you are unforeskinned and the skin is taut and immovable, then you will need some lubrication and you need to slide your hand up and down the shaft. You will likely injure yourself without lubricant. Friction burns are common when a male without foreskin masturbates without lubricant. Some lubricants are baby oil, vegetable oil, personal lubricant, soapy water, and saliva.


It is common for an unforeskinned male, who has been deprived of his internally lubricated foreskin, to have friction burns if he does not apply external lubricant.


There are many myths about masturbation, which simply are not true.


Masturbation does NOT cause insanity.

Masturbation does NOT cause you to go blind.

Masturbation does NOT cause sleeplessness.

Masturbation does NOT cause hair to grow in your palms.

Masturbation does NOT change hair color.

Masturbation does NOT cause baldness.

Masturbation does NOT cause impotence.

Masturbation does NOT prevent fathering children.

Masturbation does NOT slow down puberty.

Masturbation does NOT stunt your growth.

Masturbation does NOT suck out the nutrients.

Masturbation does NOT lower your testosterone.

Masturbation does NOT raise your testostorone.

Masturbation does NOT cause gynecomastia.

Masturbation does NOT cause pain in the testes.

Masturbation does NOT cause premature ejaculation.

Masturbation does NOT affect height.

Masturbation does NOT cause penile curvature.

Masturbation does NOT affect penis size.

Masturbation does NOT decrease stamina.

Masturbation does NOT cause muscle weakness.

Masturbation does NOT reduce muscle mass.

Masturbation does NOT cause pimples.

Masturbation does NOT cause acne.

Masturbation does NOT cause loss of blood.

Masturbation does NOT cause blood to flow from the urethra.

Masturbation does NOT cause your body to smell like a fish.

Masturbation does NOT make your bones softer.

Masturbation does NOT slow the growth of your penis.

Masturbation does NOT make your penis weak.

Masturbation does NOT make your penis smaller.

Masturbation does NOT release hormones.

Masturbation does NOT make you sexually weak.

Masturbation does NOT cause nerve problems.

Masturbation does NOT cause memory problems.

Masturbation does NOT cause cancer.

Masturbation does NOT cause back pain.

Masturbation does NOT cause stomachache.

Masturbation does NOT cause body aches.

Masturbation does NOT cause headache.

Masturbation does NOT make you thin and skinny.

Masturbation does NOT harm the kidneys.

Masturbation does NOT cause prostate cancer.

Masturbation does NOT cause psoriasis.

Masturbation does NOT cause blurred vision.

Masturbation does NOT cause hair fall.

Masturbation does NOT cause death.

Masturbation does NOT cause infection.