So I have alot of trouble getting hard when I'm with a girl and normally i am really worried, i do sometimes get morning wood and rarely random boners through the day, I barely get turned on and I worry about not being good at sex as in i don't preform well i have had sex, but never orgasmed, i lost my hardness. I gave up porn and have just given up drinking i go to the gym and i run or skip every now and then, i am 175 cm tall and 68kg so not overweight, i am really worried as it has been a problem for a about a year and a half
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Hi John,
Anxiety, about your performance or getting hard, can kill an erection.
Stop focusing on yourself. Focus on your partner. Let your body just do it's thing. If you get hard, great. If you don't, work on her until you do. You need to distract yourself.
If you get morning wood then it's not a physical problem. Again, anxiety will kill an erection.
Good luck.
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When I say I get morning wood it is only about %80 as hard as it usually is is that still anxiety??
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If you're worrying about it it can be.
Start off by a visit to your doctor for a full physical exam, just to rule out anything.
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