I have a hard time getting aroused by my fiancé sometimes. I love her. I want to have sex with her. I think that she is objectively attractive. But when sex begins I simply don't get an erection, And of course every time this happens I get more nervous about sex next time.and it's even harder to get one I have been to a doctor, and I check out. I get erections at night or in the morning sometimes and I can masterbate but not stay hard if I stop for a few seconds. I sometimes get aroused by my fiancé, but not consistently. We been together for a years now, but shes bi polor, and i dont really know what she thinks sometimes, and the more this happenes the worest i have getting a hard on. Its is very hard to deal with as my dr thinks its all mental. i thts true how do i just stop thinking about me getting hard and just relax and enjoy that shes going to enjoy live making. I can get her off manually and but she loves me to put it in right after she gets off and then she wi get off again but is a big distraction when I can't get hard for her.. Please help
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This happens to alot of people , so don't be so hard on your self hun soemtimes if you have been around the same person for a very long time and you are use to the stuff she does it's hard to get hard sometimes , try some new things in the bedroom that might spice somethings up , look up new positions new looks and sometimes if you have sex to much it's really hard for you to get hard or you can sit down and talk to her about her " bipolar-ness " maybe that turns you off ?
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Just to add, anxiety in any form will kill your erection fast.
Relax, if you don't get hard work on her until you are ready and stop worrying.
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