I let my boyfriend finger me allot I need some advice as I'm only 13

Guest over a year ago

Hi. I am currently 14 years old and I have been dating my 17 year old boyfriend for almost two months (March 28 will be two months). He just recently started getting physical. A couple weeks ago he played wit my boobs, and yesterday he did it again, then he started grabbing my butt and he even rubbed me down there. He asked if I minded if he fingered me and I kinda made up in excuse because I did not really want to. I really do not want him to touch me down there, and I feel a little awkward when he touches my boobs. It makes me kinds feel like an object, and I really do not want to have sex, and i do not want to see him naked nor do I want him to see me naked especially since we are so young. I honestly just do not know what to do. I really like him he is respectful and he does not seem like he wants to force me into anything, but I feel bad. I shouldnt feel bad but I do not know how to handle this situation.

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Guest over a year ago

Who knows, she could be a freshman in high school. While, I am not saying she should completely put her guards down, not all boys are bad. I am fourteen dating a seventeen year old....

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Guest over a year ago

yeah i am 16

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Guest over a year ago

Don't bring your premarital sh*t posting in here that is your opinion not a useful fact the anichrist is here

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Guest over a year ago

When you wrote this you were twelve right? You should be fourteen or almost fourteen by now. Well boyfriend has tried to have a threesome with me and my ex. In your opinion, since you f*cked when you were twelve, should I do it or not?

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freshman noise over a year ago

That was actually written in 2012 so they would be nearly 16 now!
Your way to young to be even thinking of having any kind of sexual contact with your boyfriend let alone a threesome, it is also against the law for a minor under 16 to be having sex and if your parents found out they could have him prosecuted and then he will have a criminal record as a sex offender for life, and what would happen if you got pregnant?

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Guest over a year ago

Yup ur rught!

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Guest over a year ago

My opinion is wtf gurl, ur 13 and yr dating a 17 year old dude. What the hell were you thinking? He probably already had sex while you were playing with dolls or some sh*t. Date someone your age, for goodness sake

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Guest over a year ago

Um... firstly grow up, secondly, she didn't want to be judged, she wanted help, if ur going to criticize her for it then don't answer. And 13 is not too young for a boyfriend, perhaps too young for fingering/sex etc but it's 2016 not the f*cking 50s... she can have a boyfriend. If she doesn't know about sex, she won't know what not to do and what to be careful of and how to be safe, not knowing is even more dangerous... so I got a tip for u, go to ur calendar and check the date, as u can see, it's not the 50s anymore... stop being such a sour puss grandma

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Guest over a year ago

ok mom whatever you say

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Guest over a year ago

That is right. I hope this kid does not respond to those other people and get herself in deep trouble. That would suck :P

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Guest over a year ago

Boii, u need to chill. This generation is Much more grown up. Like, having a boyfriend, really? I think it's a but early to have sex but making out Is TOTALLY fine for a 13 year old.

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Guest over a year ago

I'm also 13 and my boyfriend is 14, he made with me and fingered me on our first date, but he's really pushy. I've tried to break up with him several times because he so sexual but he always talks me out of it.
He has talked about sex a lot and I'm stupid so I don't tell him no... I guess I don't want to hurt him... but this has to stop.

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freshman noise over a year ago

Only you can tell him no and that no means no before he goes to far, to me he doesn't sound like a boyfriend more like just a user and I think your find if you tell him no your not doing anything sexual with him he will dump you and move on to another girl he can manipulate into doing things.

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Guest over a year ago

Times have changed lady kids are allowed to have relationships before the age of f*****g 17 let kids explore for themselves so that they know what to do

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