Im 15 but i masterbate and i want too know if 15 is to young to hav sex?
Oh yeah im a female and i really really want to know what it feels lik to have real sex with a real boy. If i hav a boyfriend and he wants me too, do u think im to young?? Please answer me!!
Oh yeah im a female and i really really want to know what it feels lik to have real sex with a real boy. If i hav a boyfriend and he wants me too, do u think im to young?? Please answer me!!
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If you want to start having sex, consider these options.
1. Unplanned pregnancy
Sex is biologically designed to make babies. thats what its for. If you have unprotected sex, if a condom splits or breaks, if a mans semen comes in contact with your vagina, you are at risk of becoming pregnant. even if a condom doesnt break, some women still manage to get pregnant! At your age, are you ready for this responsibility? Are you old enough to be considering an abortion? or motherhood? birth? and all the responsibilities that come with it?
You cant put it to the back of your mind. it must be the first thing you think about. CONTRACEPTION must be used RELIGOUSLY and consistently. NEVER have unprotected sex. ALWAYS use a condom.
2. Birth control.
Ideally, You should go on "the pill" or the oral contraceptive, its available from your local family planning clinic/planned parenthood/doctors. this pill protects you from pregnancy. Basically, you take one small pill at the same time each day, which contains small doses of hormones, which regulates your period cycle and stops your body from releasing an egg each month.
when a woman is "on the pill", if a condom splits, she has backup protection from the hormones in the pill preventing her from getting pregnant. if you want more information about this just ask and ill give you all the information on it. you should go on the pill before you have sex.
3. Boys
Girls mature faster than boys. sorry but Its been proven. You might feel ready for a mature, adult sexual relationship. but a 15 year old boy will just want you for sex. will a 15 year old boy accept the responsibility if you fall pregnant? will he hold your hand when you go to the clinic to get birth control? if the answer is "no" or "I'm not sure" then you shouldnt have sex with him.
4. relationships.
You might think different, but personally I wouldnt have sex with a boy until I had been going out with him for quite some time.
depends on the individual, I first had sex when I was 16, I wanted it for a long time before that! every girl does! i could have had sex earlier with different boys. but I waited.
I am glad I did, because when you are older you find more mature boys to have relationships with.
Dont have sex because you want to have sex for the sake of it, because you want to feel what its like. you should have it with someone you love and you TRUST. think what you are going to do when the worst happens and you have an accident with the protection.
if you are ready for the responsibilities of an unplanned pregnancy should it happen, if you are on birth control, if you have a mature boyfreind who you have been with for a long time. then sure. go for it!
If you want to ignore this and then fine, all I ask of you is that you use protection!
1. Unplanned pregnancy
Sex is biologically designed to make babies. thats what its for. If you have unprotected sex, if a condom splits or breaks, if a mans semen comes in contact with your vagina, you are at risk of becoming pregnant. even if a condom doesnt break, some women still manage to get pregnant! At your age, are you ready for this responsibility? Are you old enough to be considering an abortion? or motherhood? birth? and all the responsibilities that come with it?
You cant put it to the back of your mind. it must be the first thing you think about. CONTRACEPTION must be used RELIGOUSLY and consistently. NEVER have unprotected sex. ALWAYS use a condom.
2. Birth control.
Ideally, You should go on "the pill" or the oral contraceptive, its available from your local family planning clinic/planned parenthood/doctors. this pill protects you from pregnancy. Basically, you take one small pill at the same time each day, which contains small doses of hormones, which regulates your period cycle and stops your body from releasing an egg each month.
when a woman is "on the pill", if a condom splits, she has backup protection from the hormones in the pill preventing her from getting pregnant. if you want more information about this just ask and ill give you all the information on it. you should go on the pill before you have sex.
3. Boys
Girls mature faster than boys. sorry but Its been proven. You might feel ready for a mature, adult sexual relationship. but a 15 year old boy will just want you for sex. will a 15 year old boy accept the responsibility if you fall pregnant? will he hold your hand when you go to the clinic to get birth control? if the answer is "no" or "I'm not sure" then you shouldnt have sex with him.
4. relationships.
You might think different, but personally I wouldnt have sex with a boy until I had been going out with him for quite some time.
depends on the individual, I first had sex when I was 16, I wanted it for a long time before that! every girl does! i could have had sex earlier with different boys. but I waited.
I am glad I did, because when you are older you find more mature boys to have relationships with.
Dont have sex because you want to have sex for the sake of it, because you want to feel what its like. you should have it with someone you love and you TRUST. think what you are going to do when the worst happens and you have an accident with the protection.
if you are ready for the responsibilities of an unplanned pregnancy should it happen, if you are on birth control, if you have a mature boyfreind who you have been with for a long time. then sure. go for it!
If you want to ignore this and then fine, all I ask of you is that you use protection!
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helpisontheway is trying to scare you. i say its ok but WEAR A CONDOM i dont think i can stress this enough. besides getting an std or pregnant you'll feel better knowing your not pregnant and you dont have to worry. :D
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No one can tell you when you are ready to have sex, its just a feeling you have. Don't ever be pushed to have sex by your boyfriend or by anyone. If the guy can't handle waiting then he isn't worth giving yourself to. Good luck and always use protection!!
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15 was the age I started. You should be very careful about it though. Don't get into a sexual relationship with someone unless you are sure you love this person and you want to be with them.
Make sure to take all the necessary precautions, too, like this guy above me said.
Make sure to take all the necessary precautions, too, like this guy above me said.
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I'm not trying to scare you. I am stating the facts you need to consider when conducting and adult, sexual relationship. sex can be great! but if you use it/are used and exploited for it, it IS scary.
its the truth! it isnt lies or exagurations. sex IS for creating children. you DO need to have birth control, you DO need to make sure you are having sex with someone responsible!
I'm not scaring you out of it, i was ready for sex at 15 too. but it took me a year after that to get onto birth control, by which time I had already had two condoms split and had to take the morning after pill.
I was just making sure you had considered the social as well as the biological precatutions you need to take.
I'm not being malicous, but these things do have to be considered! its common sense.
its the truth! it isnt lies or exagurations. sex IS for creating children. you DO need to have birth control, you DO need to make sure you are having sex with someone responsible!
I'm not scaring you out of it, i was ready for sex at 15 too. but it took me a year after that to get onto birth control, by which time I had already had two condoms split and had to take the morning after pill.
I was just making sure you had considered the social as well as the biological precatutions you need to take.
I'm not being malicous, but these things do have to be considered! its common sense.
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I WAS 14 THE FIRST TIME I HAD SEX. BUT I GOT PREGNANT AT THE AGE OF 16. SO ALWAYS BE CAREFUL. AND IF YOU DECIDE TO GET ON THE PILL OR SOMESORT OF BC MAKE SURE YOU TAKE IT RIGHT. CAUSE I WAS ON THE PILL WHEN I GOT PREGNANT WITH MY DAUGHTER BUT I MISSED A COUPLE PILLS. JUST BE VERY CAREFUL. YOU ARE STILL YOUNG AND HAVE A LOT AHEAD OF YOU TO LOOK FOWARD TO!! BEST REGARDS!
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Always use a condom,
If u feel ready then you are.
quote on doubt:
William Shakespeare
"Our doubts are traitors and make us lose the good we might win, by fearing to attempt."
My interpretation:
"Our doubts will betray us, and cause us to loose the good things we may have to gain, it delays/prevents any attempt."
If u feel ready then you are.
quote on doubt:
William Shakespeare
"Our doubts are traitors and make us lose the good we might win, by fearing to attempt."
My interpretation:
"Our doubts will betray us, and cause us to loose the good things we may have to gain, it delays/prevents any attempt."
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hello,i am 15 and i lost it to my boyfriend about 3 months ago, as long as you know he loves you then i say go for it. unless he pressures you hes clearly in it for sex. use a condom.pleasee
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