hi im only 13 years old and really want sex but i know its bad and i want to do it really badly because most of my friends have and im like obsessed with boys!!!! please help me see the bad things of underage sex !
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Have you tried masturbation?
It really curves the craving for sex a lot, not to mention its fun and pleasureful (<< is that a word?)
It really curves the craving for sex a lot, not to mention its fun and pleasureful (<< is that a word?)
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its totally natural to be having these cravings at your age, welcome to the hormonal rollercoaster that is adolescence!
whats important is that you say you feel its too young. You have that gut feeling its a bad idea. so what does that say about you?
I think it says you are sensible: It is one of the most courageous things in the world to stand up against peer pressure and wait until YOU are ready, so well done to you! who cares what your freinds are doing!!! Real mates wont pick on you for not having sex! and if they do trust me: they will cringe when they look back on it ten years later
You say you want to see the bad side of underage sex?
two words: teenage pregnancy.
of course we have birth control, condoms, the pill etc. but unfortunately the majority of underage kids will not be able to use these consistently. boys will complain that condoms feel weird, or tell their girls some crazy rumor that if they do 22 jumping jacks or take aspirin or pull out before they ejaculate they cant get pregnant, or they will want it but not have any condoms handy, or daren't buy them. because at the end of the day they are still kids at heart!
No method of birth control can protect you 100% from pregnancy. exept not having it. (sucks doesn't it? but its the truth)
girls mature faster than guys do: you might want a relationship, but he just wants a bit of sex and doesnt care who its with!
the consequences are worse than the simple curiosity of what sex feels like. as the person above me said; try masturbation!
never let peer pressure make you do something with your body you might later regret! and remember to ALWAYS use protection if you do decide to have sex!
whats important is that you say you feel its too young. You have that gut feeling its a bad idea. so what does that say about you?
I think it says you are sensible: It is one of the most courageous things in the world to stand up against peer pressure and wait until YOU are ready, so well done to you! who cares what your freinds are doing!!! Real mates wont pick on you for not having sex! and if they do trust me: they will cringe when they look back on it ten years later
You say you want to see the bad side of underage sex?
two words: teenage pregnancy.
of course we have birth control, condoms, the pill etc. but unfortunately the majority of underage kids will not be able to use these consistently. boys will complain that condoms feel weird, or tell their girls some crazy rumor that if they do 22 jumping jacks or take aspirin or pull out before they ejaculate they cant get pregnant, or they will want it but not have any condoms handy, or daren't buy them. because at the end of the day they are still kids at heart!
No method of birth control can protect you 100% from pregnancy. exept not having it. (sucks doesn't it? but its the truth)
girls mature faster than guys do: you might want a relationship, but he just wants a bit of sex and doesnt care who its with!
the consequences are worse than the simple curiosity of what sex feels like. as the person above me said; try masturbation!
never let peer pressure make you do something with your body you might later regret! and remember to ALWAYS use protection if you do decide to have sex!
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IF you feel like you will engage in sex, you must remember to always make him use a condom.
Parental consent is not needed for birth control, and places like Planned Parenthood offer it for free.
IF YOU are not ready then you should not do it.
Parental consent is not needed for birth control, and places like Planned Parenthood offer it for free.
IF YOU are not ready then you should not do it.
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I know that alot of my friends say that they have had sex lol but i dought it they are 15 and act liek they do and i bet only 1 in 5 or less who say they have had it auctally have. I think that most teenagers have sex around the age of 16 but i think im goign to have it after as i dont think im ready. But thats just me
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im 13 and i want to have sex but i dont want to get pregnat and i cant even find a guy who likes me and i've tryed masturbation and it just doesn't work. i even have plenty of toys.
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no kidding about the wild rollercoster of adolescence! i'm 17 now but believe me i was having the same feeling. i'm sure almost everybody does. it's so great to hear YOU say that YOUR not ready. understanding the bad things about sex is easy cus i've personally experienced some of them. just to help i'll point out some of the things.
obviously Teen Pregnancy
STIs
the guilt you feel about lying to your rents about it
the strain it can put on a relationship
the guilt for doing it before you were ready
the worry over if you might be pregnant
it hurts the first time, and you can be in burning pain after the first times.
we're girls, and yeah we can get attached easily. that connection with someone is sooo special and it's kinda like a gift, your virginity. it's something you can only give away once and to one special person.
if you want a serious relationship, most guys admire that a girl's a virgin.
there are alot of things. easiest way to say it is that it just complicates everything. so be patient and maybe experiment with different ways to please yourself.
good luck :-)
obviously Teen Pregnancy
STIs
the guilt you feel about lying to your rents about it
the strain it can put on a relationship
the guilt for doing it before you were ready
the worry over if you might be pregnant
it hurts the first time, and you can be in burning pain after the first times.
we're girls, and yeah we can get attached easily. that connection with someone is sooo special and it's kinda like a gift, your virginity. it's something you can only give away once and to one special person.
if you want a serious relationship, most guys admire that a girl's a virgin.
there are alot of things. easiest way to say it is that it just complicates everything. so be patient and maybe experiment with different ways to please yourself.
good luck :-)
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hey , im nearly 13 and ive already did it and I so not regreat it...well the first thing you have to think about is that you are ready for it , that you are not afraid to be hurt and stuff because the first time can be painful but others are so damn good...so just think of protection first cuz you will be so worried if you dont take sum so yeh..and choose the best person to do it with and the good time...
Good luck :-)
Laure
Good luck :-)
Laure
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As much as you want to have it, just think about this...
You have sex, and maybe in a month, you find out that you're pregnant, then you tell the person you had sex with, and he backs out and ignores you while you have to go through the pain of telling your parents that you're pregnant and having to be a social outcast. No school work, no exercise, your parents watching you closely, and you feeling horrible. If you can go through all of this and still be happy that you had sex then go for it.
You have sex, and maybe in a month, you find out that you're pregnant, then you tell the person you had sex with, and he backs out and ignores you while you have to go through the pain of telling your parents that you're pregnant and having to be a social outcast. No school work, no exercise, your parents watching you closely, and you feeling horrible. If you can go through all of this and still be happy that you had sex then go for it.
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YOu are twelve years old. YOu are a little girl. There are many other ways to pleasure youself besides losing your virginity at a young age. I personally think 12 year old girls need not have sex, they are still children.
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seriosuly what is wrogn with children these days? i'm eighteen and have never had a boyfriend. I'm just not interested in having a relationship right now. My life is about having fun, being free about my choices and going ot college and working. when i was 12 and 13 i didn't even have a clue about sex. I was just having fun beign a kid. Becuase at 12 and 13 YOU ARE JUST A KID!. I am the most adult tennager you would have ever seen./ I do not drink i do not smoke and i do not have sex. Life is too short to be pregnant or have a relationship. do you really want some boy controlling your life when you are just 12 and 13? Just STOP!
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I agree that you should not have sex at that young of age. I started wanting to have sex a few months ago, and I started masterbating. I think it helps, although I still want to have sex sometimes. Also keep in mind that most places have LAWS at what age you can begin at, and I don't know of one place that allows 12 year old's to have sex.
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(b-day 13 days ago) and I agree having sex at that age is waaaay to soon. I want to have sex sometimes, but I understand that I am underage at the moment. Please keep in mind that many places have LAWS about how young you can be before you have sex.
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well you should just look more hard im a 15 year old boy who wants to have sex but i dont want to get in truble for that under age sex stuff
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I am 13 to and don't Hve a viva eater or anything so it gets worse and worse!!! What do I do????
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