HOW DO I MAKE MY PARENTS NOT FIND OUT IF I LOOSE IT?

i know this is not what you want to here and its not because you are nto old enough to realise what love is. but sex is not a choice made for juiveniles.you may live to regret this one day and realise that you werent EXPERIENCED enough to make a well informed decision.you have failed to write in how long you have been together as well and its a large contributing factor sooo my response and advice is too wait until you know for sure that you are 100% ready for this and test the water of your relationship a bit more however if you do go ahead and do the deed make sure you participate in safe sex. If possible with two forms of protection.

You're 12 years old. Sex is not something that you should be concerned about at that age. You're way too young and immature to handle the responsibilities and possible consequences of having sex. Yes, I said immature. I don't mean to be harsh, but its the cold hard truth. And if you have sex, your parents shouldn't really be able to find out. Its not like they inspect your *ahem* private areas. If he will wait until you're ready, then make him wait. You guys can practice other types of sex other than vaginal intercourse. Hell, I'm 20 and my girlfriend is 17, and she doesn't want to have kids til she's out of college, so we agreed not to have vaginal intercourse, but rather oral sex and anal sex until then. Sure, I want to have vaginal intercourse, but the possible consequences of having that kind of sex are too great for us to risk at this point in our lives.

The posts that you have read prior to this are all correct for sure.
So i won't read you the riot act. The first thing you need to know is that you need protection. This act is going to happen with or with out our advice. In that case, get in the right place before you do this.
You must get on some kind of birth control to start. Go to Planned Parenthood, talk to them about your intentions. They may try to sway your ideas (which they are right) but they will also make sure that if this is your intent, they will get you started with protection.
Bf needs to wear a condom, no excuses.

I can't resist this but my grandson is 12. He plays outside and has just, and i mean just realizes that there is an opposite sex. He is shy around girls and i just can't imagine him having sex.
Do you really want to start up a reputation at this age? I'm sorry honey, but when a little boy makes it all the way to home plate with his gf, don't you think that he will talk? The type of affection that you have for each other is wonderful, but it will go away. Your 12, geez. Can you imagine getting pregnant? Your child will be starting Kindergarten before you even graduate from high school.

Okay, i'm sorry, but the mother came rushing out of me. Please stop and think about this and think about it hard. If he says he will wait until your ready, make him wait for a long time, and if he doesn't, oh well.

I just wanted to tell you about me when I was in school. I didn't really date although I was popular and good looking. I thought hard about the big moment and decided that I wanted to wait until I was sure I would marry the guy (that didn't happen but I was older and better equiped to deal with the reality of the relationship not working out). When my friends found out that I was still a virgin, they didn't greet me with ridicule but told me they wished they had waited because they now relized that they gave away something to someone who is now insignificant and they regretted being so free with such a valuable object. I think there are other not so sexual ways to express how you feel for someone. Do something special. Create a special gift or just hold each other. You may find that waiting turns out to make the event much more special. If you insist on going ahead with your plans, by all means seek out a reliable source for information such as planned parenthood. They will talk to both of you and help you make the right choice without any unwanted consequences. By the way, a mother usually knows just by the guilty look on the daughter's face. The other thing is talk to your mother, she has been right where you are and may just be the caring helpfullness you need.

Okay... here we go...

YES at 12 it's gonna hurt like heck because your body is in NO WAY ready to have sex, being one hundred percent honest, you're gonna bleed, it's gonna burn and you're going to be in pain for days, maybe even weeks.

Some research has shown that having sex at a young age can lead to increased chances of cervical cancer in later years - it's still being fully researched.

Also at 12 years old you shouldn't even be considering this - there is always an off chance of getting pregnant when you have sex, even if you use protection, you're body most likely wouldn't cope with it and that can lead to birth complications and problems for you.

Let's be honest here, at 18 some people are not emotionally mature enough to be having sex, heck have you even started your periods yet?!

You're even young for periods, sex should be out of the question.
Having sex doesn't make you mature, having sex makes you extremely immature if you are not old enough, or not even able to discuss this with your parents.

The very fact that you are desperate to hide this from your parents means that you KNOW this shouldn't be something you are doing. If you are certain that you're going to break the law, get your boyfriend in serious trouble and risk pain and a pregnancy then you should at least sit down with your mother or a doctor to dicuss this first before you make the biggest mistake of your life.

This "love" you are feeling, is hormones as you are going through changes - if it really IS love, then it will still be love when you are 16, if he's going to wait, then wait until 16.

Seriously, you shouldn't even have sex until your married.

Bleeding when you dont know what exactly its like at age 12 is normal. Parents will almost always be able to tell if you lose your virginity. Especially moms. Sometimes guys say they will wait until you are ready. But if you dont give them what they want they will move on to a new girl. If he is not willing to stay by your side and wait for when you feel is the right time, then you know he wasn't worth losing it to. Many guys will be like that. I have a very close relationship with my mom. I tell her everything. Im 16 and just lost my virginity not long ago to my boyfriend. If you want to have sex, at such a young age, you need to at least talk to your mom. If your afraid of what your dad would say, then ask her not to inform him of this. But, i think it would be best if you guys just waited until 15 or 16. You may know what ''love'' is, but once you have sex, that ''love'' changes to something that doesn't seem like the ''love'' it used to be. Kind of like all the love you guys will get from each other will be making love. Sex isn't everything in a relationship. If he seems to be hounding you to have sex, dont give into his pressure. Just tell him that you dont know if your really ready to do this kind of stuff. If he is hounding you for sex, then its apparent that all he wants from you is sex. When my boyfriend and i first started talking about having sex, my mom didn't think i was ready. But after awhile, she trusted us to use protection. If he didn't have a condom, we wouldn't have sex anyways, i would simply go to my mom and ask for one. I think its great to have an older girls opinion, especially if you are kind of afraid to tell our mom about it. My advice to you is to just be honest with your mom, tell her that you think your ready, and go with what she says. Chances are, she will tell you that you are too young to be having sex, but respect her answer and wait until you are around 16. If you dont want your boyfriend to get mad at your for saying this, then say that you just dont think that you are ready yet.