I'm entirely sure you guys get questions like this everyday concerning our generations... But I have been with my boyfriend for well over 4 months, we are not sexually active; intercourse wise, that is. Yes he's fingered me. And I've given him a hand job, but yes we are both virgins, but I don't have my hymen. That is do to the fact of using tampons at a 11. I am now, 14 almost 15. He is 16. I can't remember what happened exactly but, I may have touched my vaginal area after he came.. he did finger me. I KNOW there is a chance of me getting pregnant, there is always a chance of getting pregnant with making the choices you do involving anything sexual. But I need some reassurance, from your point of view or experiences, not a statistic or ''could''. Your mind set. Please. I'm 4 days late for my period, this situation happened during my fertile/ovulation days. I worry about everything. Although. I'm worrying so much, it's to the point where i'm making myself physically sick over it. I'm very scared. I have a good head on my shoulders.. but..I'm not mature enough to have a baby. Ps: I know talking to my mother would help..but I have never disappointed her in my life.. I promise you. Please. I need some help.