i'm 4-5 days late on my period!

Dear Olivia

You haven't really given enough information.

You have "read that its possible to get pregnant if his sperm somehow got near my vagina". It is actually only possible to get pregnant if his sperm somehow got in your vagina. But if his semen somehow got near your vagina, it could make its way into your vagina if the conditions were right. Then it would have to be at a fertile time for you to get pregnant.

So if you want some reassurance, you need to give more information (privately if you prefer, but in public others can benefit)

1. "I've never been this late"
   • What date was your period due?
   • When did your last period start?
   • What is your normal cycle length (typically 28 days)?
2. "i didnt have actual sex but we do "play around" withought protection"
   • Are you still a virgin?
   • Is your hymen intact?
   • What exactly do you do when you "play around"?
3. "if his sperm somehow got near my vagina."
   • How close to your vagina did his semen get?
   • How wet were you at the time?
   • What dates did this happen?
4. "Am i just being paranoic?"
   • Probably not
   • How old are you?
   • What are the cultural/religious implications?
   • Where are you from

   I'll try and help if I can.

   Take care

My period usually comes the 28th-30th tops, my last period started the 29th of aug. I am still a virgin and my hymen is intact. By playing around i mean masturbating each other and i'm not sure how close his semen got but i would say close enough to be worried, i was pretty wet and this happened three times in the last 3 weeks. I'm 19 and live in Argentina. No religion but my parent WOULD kill me.

I don't think this happened in a fertile time, so I think you should be OK this time. But you need to be careful, and be certain where his semen gets! Do you understand your body and how it works? Ask if you need information.
So if you want to talk more about this, please ask (privately if you prefer)

Thanks for your help! I'll ask you if anything else comes up