I'm 25 and I was single for a few months. And lately I've been watching a lot of porn. I was only masturbating with porn. At least 1 time each day, for a long time. Now I've meet this incredibly attractive women, and we are starting a relationship.
But I can't get it up anymore!!!!!! I just can't!! I've stoped the porn for almost 1 week and I can't even get it up (with her OR without her) I just have no more libido at all. I'm just not exited at all with I guest "regular real sex".
We did not (yet) tryed to have sex but we fooled around a lot and I didn't even get turned on at all. Don't have to say that It didn't got hard too.
I had a girlfriend for 4 years and never had such problem (i wasn't looking at porn very much though)
Now I'm so afraid to tell her I can't get it up!! And how can I get my libido back??? I realy find her attractive and want to have sex with her sooooo bad.
Pleaaaaaaaaaaase I need helpppppp soo much!!!!
What can I do to get my libido, and in the same time my erections, back??
(I've stoped to watch that damn porn for good don't worry!!!)
God I'm so ambarassed, and don't want to loose her.
Thank you verry much!!
But I can't get it up anymore!!!!!! I just can't!! I've stoped the porn for almost 1 week and I can't even get it up (with her OR without her) I just have no more libido at all. I'm just not exited at all with I guest "regular real sex".
We did not (yet) tryed to have sex but we fooled around a lot and I didn't even get turned on at all. Don't have to say that It didn't got hard too.
I had a girlfriend for 4 years and never had such problem (i wasn't looking at porn very much though)
Now I'm so afraid to tell her I can't get it up!! And how can I get my libido back??? I realy find her attractive and want to have sex with her sooooo bad.
Pleaaaaaaaaaaase I need helpppppp soo much!!!!
What can I do to get my libido, and in the same time my erections, back??
(I've stoped to watch that damn porn for good don't worry!!!)
God I'm so ambarassed, and don't want to loose her.
Thank you verry much!!
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hey man ....i know how that must suck ....i came her looking for comforting my own sh*t ..but i find more ppl have common issues.... well hers one thing that can help... keep in mind that u can get it up..and dunt get ur self nervous around the whole situation ..
be cool and dunt wry about down there ... ..and this is the trick ... try something new ..like talk to ur gurl.. open up ..about sex.... watching porn only effects ur expectations in ur mind.. try diff stuff with her .. ask her stuff she likes.. and slip in ..wt wud she like to do to you .. and then go with the flow cz u become comfartable about doin it..regardless of size.. limp dik ..or wtever..tell her how much u care to make it wrk ..and that helps.. .one more thing to keep in mind.... if u can give her enough orgasms..her satisfaction is equivalent to u having a 9 inch megadick when u only have a 2 inched limp penis =p
hope you got the point ..and hope it helps, gud luk
PEace
be cool and dunt wry about down there ... ..and this is the trick ... try something new ..like talk to ur gurl.. open up ..about sex.... watching porn only effects ur expectations in ur mind.. try diff stuff with her .. ask her stuff she likes.. and slip in ..wt wud she like to do to you .. and then go with the flow cz u become comfartable about doin it..regardless of size.. limp dik ..or wtever..tell her how much u care to make it wrk ..and that helps.. .one more thing to keep in mind.... if u can give her enough orgasms..her satisfaction is equivalent to u having a 9 inch megadick when u only have a 2 inched limp penis =p
hope you got the point ..and hope it helps, gud luk
PEace
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What you have to do is , actually the very opposite of trying to get your libido so much right away instead. Fuirst take a piece of paper and write down , all the toughts related to potentially losing her first , gotta see those fears , and let go of them . that's one, they put you in a deeply stressed panick mode, you won't have an erection like that.
Then, also , write the toughts about the porn , maybe the guilty thoughts, ....let me give you an example...
See, it's because of the prn, too much pron, you are an as****e, you don't deserve to get a real girlfriend ..now ./...etc...
All of that ... is PARALYSING..., in oother words ...block you ...can't get it up ...and more ...simply put ...gotta clean up head a bit ..
buzz me if any pther question.
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You need to quit watching porn forever and you masturbate too much every day then how do you expect to have a hard erection. You need to quit masturbating for 6 to 8 months to reverse the side effects of over masturbation. Then after you recover you should masturbate only twice a month ( this thing doctor told me). Aso eat some multivitamins for men . exercise more like play sports and go jogging . you need to be healthy. Also eat more fish.
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