I'm really scared. I get this....turned on...feeling and I go look at porn stuff. I hate doing it afterwards, by the way. I keep wiggling in a certain way and it seems that I climax or something. And then when I go to wipe it, there's blood in my discharge stuff. There hasn't been blood there before! Not since I haven't had my period for 6 months without consulting my folks, and then I got it for around over a week, so I'm on birth control pills. And let me tell you, I'm not pregnant. I'm really scared because I don't want to shame my parents in thinking I've done something like this. By all means, I'm trying to stop. The blood is worrying me. Should I be concerned? And I don't want to tell them because they'll lose trust in me. I'm so worried! What's wrong with me? I'm so scared that it's serious! Please help! :-(
And I'm only 15!! And I really want it to stop, and I'm trying to stop all i can!
And I'm only 15!! And I really want it to stop, and I'm trying to stop all i can!
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Firstly try to not worry, it is very natural to get turned on when watching porn, most people would. If you are wiggling in a certain way and enjoying it , well once again thats okay too!! you are probably putting pressure on your clitorus and having an orgasm, thats is where a women gets sexual stimulation from , so thats normal too !
Just because you are 15 doesnt mean you cant get turned on, so dont worry about it too much.
Now re the bleeding, maybe when you are wiggling as you call it, if you have your clothes on, maybe the clothing is causing you some irritation, now this might sound very horrible to do, but get a mirror and have a look at yourself, to see if maybe you have cut yourself.
And regarding being pregnant, also impossible if you are on the pill, and taking it regularly !!! If you havent had sex, you cant be pregnant at all, if you are still worried , answer me back, and i will give you some advice.
But everything you are doing is okay, so dont worry so much
Just because you are 15 doesnt mean you cant get turned on, so dont worry about it too much.
Now re the bleeding, maybe when you are wiggling as you call it, if you have your clothes on, maybe the clothing is causing you some irritation, now this might sound very horrible to do, but get a mirror and have a look at yourself, to see if maybe you have cut yourself.
And regarding being pregnant, also impossible if you are on the pill, and taking it regularly !!! If you havent had sex, you cant be pregnant at all, if you are still worried , answer me back, and i will give you some advice.
But everything you are doing is okay, so dont worry so much
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Thanks. But for the bleeding part, it comes out of me, not from the outer parts. It comes out just like a period. It hasn't happen before since like i said i didn't get my period for six months and then got it for over a week and now am on birth control pills. And eventually the bleeding stops. Could that possibly trigger my period? And no, I haven't had sex. I don't plan to until I'm married. So, it couldn't be something bad? Or is it just normal to bleed when you do that? Could I be doing it too much? By the way, the blood that comes out of me with the orgasm is a darker red. And afterwards, I seem to hurt a while around my hips (possible ovaries). Is that bad or normal? And is there a way to prevent doing this? I seem to...crave it. I want to stop looking at pornographic stuff so bad! It's just so hard to do, and then when I do do it, after i climax, I feel ashamed. What's that supposed to mean? Is there any way i can stop this sex drive? And I like to do it beacuse it feels good. I don't want to do it anymore. Please! Help!
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Your human..it's ok to want to be pleasured...it's so normal..dont be ashamed.Instead of watching porn you can just pleasure yourself..without wathing porn
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Hi again, please stop worrying about the porn so much, its all a new experience for you, and yes it is okay to crave watching it, as it is making you feel good, so like the person said above , stop feeling ashamed about it.
Now regarding the bleeding, does this only happen when you have an orgasm, have you had normal periods whilst on the pill, maybe your body is still adjusting to the pill, maybe this type of pill does not agree with your body, l would go to the doctors and ask if it is normal, you dont have to mention the porn, but l would tell doctor that it happens when you have an orgasm, via masturbation, l think it is better to find out for sure. It might be as simple as just changing the pill, get the box it came in and read the side effects of this pill. . im going to just have a guess, and it is a guess !!! that it might be a side effect of contraception
Now regarding the bleeding, does this only happen when you have an orgasm, have you had normal periods whilst on the pill, maybe your body is still adjusting to the pill, maybe this type of pill does not agree with your body, l would go to the doctors and ask if it is normal, you dont have to mention the porn, but l would tell doctor that it happens when you have an orgasm, via masturbation, l think it is better to find out for sure. It might be as simple as just changing the pill, get the box it came in and read the side effects of this pill. . im going to just have a guess, and it is a guess !!! that it might be a side effect of contraception
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Well, I don't have normal periods. I have trouble with them, as you ahve read. I'm only taking thbe birth conrol pills to help regulate my peirod. and i only went on them two days ago. So it's not from the pills. So...what's wrong with me? Is it jsut because of my irregualr period?
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It seems that the pill is not regulating your period as you might have wanted it too. Think best go to the Doctor, maybe like l said before, its not the right pill for you. It might be as simple as just changing pills , to get one that suits you.
I dont think their is anything wrong , just maybe wrong contraception. Many women have to change pills until they find the right one that suits them.
I dont think their is anything wrong , just maybe wrong contraception. Many women have to change pills until they find the right one that suits them.
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I went on those pills before like around last year or the year before. And when I took them, I didn't bleed. Could I have damaged something by masturbating>?
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That's quite unlikely.
I fully sympathise with your concerns over your exgerated sex drive; as I have a similar issue. Like you I'm not too fond of it either. I do think however it's incredably noble of you to wait until you get married before having sex - that in itself shows a level of self control that few these days posses. :-)
If I may get technical - the reason that you're craving it so much is that your body knows it's a good source of pleasure ::: It's a survival aid that's now mostly redundant in modern humans - think food that tastes good is good for survival ;-). Now; when your brain recieves images that it deems good for survival (i.e. reproduction) it triggers a similar response: and certain hormones and chemicals are released that make reward yourself for doing that action. Orgasm is a more intense version of this response. So do not worry - all of this is perfectly natural.
Regarding your bleeding and irregular periods - I'd be inclined to agree what has been said elsewhere in this thread, and speak to your doc about the potential incompatibilities between you and your pill.
I fully sympathise with your concerns over your exgerated sex drive; as I have a similar issue. Like you I'm not too fond of it either. I do think however it's incredably noble of you to wait until you get married before having sex - that in itself shows a level of self control that few these days posses. :-)
If I may get technical - the reason that you're craving it so much is that your body knows it's a good source of pleasure ::: It's a survival aid that's now mostly redundant in modern humans - think food that tastes good is good for survival ;-). Now; when your brain recieves images that it deems good for survival (i.e. reproduction) it triggers a similar response: and certain hormones and chemicals are released that make reward yourself for doing that action. Orgasm is a more intense version of this response. So do not worry - all of this is perfectly natural.
Regarding your bleeding and irregular periods - I'd be inclined to agree what has been said elsewhere in this thread, and speak to your doc about the potential incompatibilities between you and your pill.
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Ok. One last thing. So, it could be the pill. Ok. But since I do have irregular periods, could the blood in my climax be because of that?
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Ok. I just reached my orgasm. Now I'm really scared I'll bleed with it. I'll let you know if I do. And I did it without clothes this time.
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I didn't bleed. Do you think I just had to get used to the pills? I think it was because of my irregular period. Now I feel releived. But I feel ashamed that I did it. Is that normal?
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Although l cant gaurantee this to you, l would say its a probability that you cant overlook, l still would go to the doctors and discuss this if you can, or definately look at swapping contraception after seeing the Doctor. Good luck honey :-D
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Actually, about five hours after i did it, the fluid that came outta me was partially pink. So by doctor, you mean change the pill?
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