masterbating questions please answer!

1- does masterbating effect the size of your penis?I feel mine isn't the right size,small

It will not affect the size in anyway, sizes can vary from person to person. but the average erect size tends to be similar at about 6inches by the end of puberty.(20yrs +)

2- is masterbating to porn bad, is porn bad is it better to masterbate and not watch porn

if you are the right age to view it legally then its upto you and upto each person individually, one note though is dont believe everything you see, it isnt a representation of "normal". also dont use it as an education aid, as i said it isnt always real.

3- I feel that when I masterbate I cum to fast I don't time is but that's the way I feel, is this a problem? Is there a way I can get myself not to cum so fast.

this is where masterbation is helpfull, because you can learn to control when you ejaculate. im not that sure how to advise doing it but i know it is a good way to learn in a safe and harmless way what you like or dislike before you have a relationship.

Thank you does anybody have any other answers especisally for question3

As you mature, you will learn self control. You will be able to figure out just how your body reacts to different stimuli.
If you see something that may turn you on, you may get an erection without even thinking about it, this is normal and eventually you will learn how to control it.
Don't think of it as a problem, it's a learning experience for you. When you masterbate don't try to get it over with, take your time and feel the different sensations that are going thru you. To fast will make you cum fast, slow and easy will prolong orgasm. When you feel that you are about to have an orgasm, drop back and let the feeling subside a bit, then continue. Your orgasms may be more powerful if you allow your self to build up to one. You are getting to know your body and what makes it feel good and it's also teaching you self control, which you will need when you become romantically involved in the future.

1- does masterbating effect the size of your penis?I feel mine isn't the right size,small

If masturbation made it grow, I'd have to carry mine in a wheel-barrow. Size is based on your genetic code and there are no magic pills, lotions, creams, or exercises that will change anything.

2- is masterbating to porn bad, is porn bad is it better to masterbate and not watch porn

It can become a problem so I would recommend keeping it to a minimum and trying to keep your imagination sharp and focused. The brain is the most sensitve erogenous zone, if you get used to pornographic imagery it may become difficult to become aroused in 'normal' settings.

3- I feel that when I masterbate I cum to fast I don't time is but that's the way I feel, is this a problem? Is there a way I can get myself not to cum so fast?

Yes, as you asked in another post edging can help you get more in touch with your orgasm cycle. Vary your speed, intensity, stroke, etc...

yep. remember the saying: the old man is the wise man!

ok for question #3 If you feel your about to cum and you would like to make it last longer at the base of the penis if you squeeze and hold for a second. That should do it and with doing that, you should be able to gain self control :-)



Hope I helped


-Heather Stevenson :-)