My girlfriend and I have never had sex. Dating for almost a year now. However, we have fooled around a bit but we are always extra carefull! Handj**** but when i finish we clean it up off my stomach and then we both wash our hands with soap and water and even put water on my stomach with soap and wipe off. Then we go back at it again and I will end up fingering her. I even wash under my nails and warm water is used before anything.

She is one day late on her period and started bleeding but she says this period is very slow. It only bleeds a little bit not a lot like usual. No cramps like usual. She claims its wierd and different. (Also claims her boobs look bigger but I say no way!)

I know she is stressed about it and im starting to get a little paranoid. What could this be? Is the stress making it even worse? Please help. Thank you.