Okay so heres what happened. I'm going to give it to you straightforward because i have no shame at this point. So at the end of september, my girlfriend and I were messing around in the back of my car and she gave me a ha****b whilst i was fingering her. So I came and soaked her panties, got some on her vagina(if that wasn't just from her panties being soaked), and yeah. it was a mess. Anyway, it dried up on there and i drove her home because we didn't expect me to not grab a sock/item of blockage in time. Within an hour of being home she washed off her vagina. So we did this around the end of september. So this was around the time she gets her period. Right? Right. And the next day she told me there was a little bit of blood. Looking back at it that was probably just the aftermath from fingering her. the next day she got her period which continued for the rest of the week as usual. then the next week rolled around and things were looking up for us.
So everything seems peachy keen. right? WRONG. The following week after nothing had happened she calls me after school saying, "boyfriend, i'm bleeding!" when we got home and talked about things, she told me it was the color brown and about the size of a quarter. Now before we all go saying, "AWW HAIILLL JAMES! U IZ PREGGO AND BLINK-182 SUX!" let me explain something. she then checked her pad/tampon/whatever the hell was there to not soil her panties, and there was a bigger mass of brownish red blood. And i've been doing the research ALLL last month to the point where i'm ready to get my freakin' P.H.D. in gynecology. So i know that it could've been implantation bleeding. Okay? Okay. so here's where it gets all trippy. So the week goes on and she still keep bleeding with each day the brownish color keeps going away to the point where the last 3 days it was pretty much red. not bright red. not pink. not any other variation of red. JUST. FREAKING. PERIOD. BLOOD. RED. So then we waited till sunday when the bleeding stopped and she took a test in the morning and it came out completely negative. HUZZAH! but i'm still so freaking uneasy. and here's where my question come in: WHAT HAPPENS IF SHE DOESN'T GET HER PERIOD THIS MONTH?!?!?!!??!? Like seriously guys. For me this is REALLLLLLLYYYYYYYY BIG! so I could use some help because I can't sit still. I just want to know if i can put my shoulders down. can you guys assess the situation i'm in and help me figure out if the love of my life, whom i already planned on marrying someday, is pregnant or not?while i'm at it im going to add one more quick comment. please people, do not tell me that i'm freaking stupid for not only: A.) trying to make this story somewhat entertainingB.) doing the secks(kinda) in the first place. I realize that I'm an id**t. Okay? I did all the sobbing, and thinking, and the worrying part still isn't over. Trust me. I learned my lession. So don't tell me that i'm an indecent person just because we were messing around. We've been dating for a year and a half now and this is the third time i've messed with her and the first she's messed with me. So you can't say we're awful, stupid people because there are others who have just freaking done it and not even called it a relationship.SO FINAL SUMMATION or tl;dr version of the story:got cum on her vaginashe got regular perioda week after period, weird brownish period/bleeding comeswe take pregnancy test and it comes back negativewhat happens if period is missed this month?THANK YOU FOR YOUR TIME! I hope you had as much reading this ballad as much as i have had experiencing it. Good day, and God bless all of you. I love you. No this whole story is not a joke. I'm serious.
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Hi James,
Slow down.
Having sex within about 10 days of her period it is unlikely she'd get pregnant. The egg is not viable, able to be fertilized. You said that she had her NORMAL period TWO days later. She'd be at her lowest fertility.
If she was pregnant she would NOT have a "normal" period. Yes, there can be some bleeding.
Implantation bleeding is called "spotting." It is very light, no pad needed. What you've described seems heavier than that. She can have bleeding, for a number of reasons.
Sperm needs to get INTO her vagina, not just on it.
I'm not clear on when she took the pregnancy test. If it was more than two weeks after the event, three would be better, and she used her VERY first morning urine to test, then the results should be accurate.
Wait for the next period. It should be coming along soon.
Keep us posted. Good luck.
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Okay so, Update time! So in continuation to the initial post made back in October, we waited for the next month and at the beginning of the month she had her period. I'm pretty sure it was her period anyway. So then we went through the rest of the month all good, until the end of the month I think I just overreacted when she told me she felt like she was getting fatter. Which to me seemed rather odd, so I spend the weekend getting all worked up just for her to have another period on the Sunday of that weekend. So now she's getting mad at me every time i ask about every little thing she tells me. Like during the time of her period in December, she told me she went to the bathroom 3 times in one day which is more than she normally does. Although, she was drinking lots of water this last week so that probably explains that. Then yesterday and friday she said something about wanting chocolate, which i understand she just came off of the period and everyone wants this or that ever now and then, but i feel like i'm just over-reacting to everything. Like really, I probably am. But i just can't get a grip on everything. I know i should trust her body and all, because she'd tell me if anything was wrong with it. But then tonight as she lied down in bed, the one time i unmute the skype call, her tummy started making a lot of funny sounds. Am I just over reacting to all of these things? Please help me, Guys. I've learned my lesson, and I'd do anything to go back to way things used to be before I had all this worry in my life.
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