leg squeezing masturbation and position of heterosexual intercourse?

Thank you, she does not want me to anken or have sex again until I can cum by her pulling me off, it has been nearly three weeks now and even though I am as turned on as hell I still have not cum, the last two days she has been giving me oral then switching to pulling me by hand that is fantastic because I am almost there every time now I give her quite a bit of precum so I am very close. She will certainly obtain a large load when I cum after that time because we have heaps of sex usually three or four anal, two vaginal, two 69ers and two ankens per week for me and two with vibrator for her

Nipple clamps are fantastic my wife clamps me quite a bit she cuffs me behind so I cannot remove them then clamps them on tightening the grip leaves them for 5 minutes then tightens again it is a very intense pain but I really like it especially if I anken at the same time

Good today I had a nice cum as my wife pulled me off, she is going to let me anken tomorrow morning but then before I can anken again I have to show her I can pull myself off
I hope I can learn quickly because I really love ankening

Yeah it's not the great feeling as you tighten the inner thighs and wank away. I just use the hand sometimes to get it hard and stay that way , think it's good as I have grown extra using the hand, well maybe not grown just got to full potential

I am not too sure why she wants me to start pulling myself off sometimes instead of just ankening all the time she always loves playing with me while I anken I think a couple of her friends told her their husbands pull themselves off and she thought I should too

My wife also wanted me to give ankening a rest for a while and pull myself off instead, she thought I was getting too used to wanking and not paying her much attention

Man i also did this the same way & also wondering that only i do it like that..? But that's not true its an technique of masturbation & is completely ok. Dont do this for atleast 2 weeks(if you are planning to have sex). Or else your partner would not at all be comfotable while having sex.

Hey guys! I'm 19 (male) and have been using this technique for a long time. My last relationship was when I was 16 and I don't remember having problems getting hard with my gf, however most recently I had issues with a girl and couldn't get hard. Now I'm in a new relationship and I'm a bit worried this might occur again, could this have something to do with the technique or is it more likely because Im a bit nervous or something? Thanks!

My advice is try using the hand for a while to make it hard. This technique will take a while as legs squeezing is way better

Leg squeezing technique is bad for you in many ways like don't get hard in actual intercourse or feeling like you are very close to climax but just can't and not motivate to get a gf. After reading many replies I found that most of us have these few things in common: Discovered leg squeezing from a young age, being able to hit climax using this technique without getting hard, most can't masturbate the regular way. Masturbation gives us that few seconds of pleasure which is very addicting and since we discovered an easy way to get it young age, we're likely to become extremely addicted to it and do it quite often because it doesn't require our penis to get hard. So If you can't masturbate the regular way chances are you won't be able to orgasm in actually sexual intercourse like I did 3 months ago either. Don't be frustrated, because regular masturbation could be learned. Here is how first your need to quit porn this is extremely important ( trust me porn is messing up your head). Step two stops masturbate for 2 weeks to a month( if you don't masturbate often then do something longer like a month or so) the goal is to make yourself extremely turned on. when you are really want to masturbate just try to not do it for another 5 days. By the end of that fifth days, you will be so freaking turned on, this is when you attempt to masturbate the regular way and tell yourself if you can't masturbate like this today you going to have to wait for 3 more days to try again because of no leg squeeze ever again. And you don't need porn for this just go to Instagram or something lol. Ok so just keep stroking it until your penis is hard and when you feel that you able to hit climax but you probably won't, you will have to close your eyes and use your imagination, hold your breath and do a small but fast stroke. Concentrate and you will be able to hit the climax. It only takes one or two successful orgasms this way to learn. And you're good to go. FYI I stop doing leg squeeze now and it's great I feel so normal and confidence now.

I use both and have done for years with no problems - it's good to vary things over time. The leg squeeze is amazing, but the hand can be amazing too :)

I learnt both years ago, but still prefer the legs as I can edge and make my eyes water when I hold off

My wife insisted I give ankening a rest for a while and I start masturbating by pulling myself off, she started pulling me off and it took a while but eventually I began cumming for her then I trained myself, it is not as good as ankening but she swears our vaginal and anal sex are much better and I do last a lot longer, she is restricting me to one anken a month for the time being

I have been ankening for more than 40 years and I love it. It never prevent me to engage in more conventional masturbation and penetrative sex. For me they are different aspects of sexual expression and diversity is good (it would be too boring to just do the same thing over and over again) but as discussed here moderation is important. Any excessive activity that becomes a compulsion (including masturbation) could create issues in our lives.

I am sure your correct, I am now pulling myself off and cumming nicely, my wife is quite happy with my progress away from ankening and we can both tell when we do vaginal or anal now I am a lot harder and last longer, she wants me to slow down on wanking all together we both now realise I was ankening far too much because it is just so sexy particularly when she assisted, I was doing it at least four times a week we have agreed that I should only anken once a month and pull myself off once every two weeks, I think that is quite fair as she wants vaginal and anal entry at least three times and a 69er once per week.
I really love ankening but obviously I was becoming very compulsive and not thinking of my loved ones needs, I feel real good that we are back on track