My boyfriend cums too fast!! :/

Italianchick over a year ago

Hi! So my boyfriend and I have been going out for almost a year and have only had sex 3 times. First time it actually lasted about a minute but it took about an hour to get him hard as I later found out he was still a virgin so didn't think much of it. He has no confidence in the sex department therefore he never really wants to have sex with me so continues on trying to pleasure me by fingering/oral and I do the same to him which is good but I really really really want to just have sex with him and actually reach orgasm or be ableto enjoy it for even 5 minutes rather than seconds, that's all im asking! When we do it he comes as soon as he puts it in me and even though i don't show it he clearly knows that im annoyed and it makes him feel horrible about himself but he says he can't so anything about it, he doesn't know how to hold it back. When we so other things it takes him forever to cum because he can control it. I really don't know what to do.... :( Some advice will be much appreciates thanks!!!

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franciscor over a year ago

First of all, tell him not to masturbate. In doing this we set our minds to early ejaculation and when we enter the body of the woman it is abiously a most wonderful sensation far beyond the sensation we feel with the hand and thoght. We become more sensitive and have no control because we have acostumed the mind to these short moments of pleasure. But this problem can be changed. He has to re-set his mind; (for your boyfriend) keep this thought with you always that your desire should be to please your partner and this not only in sex but in all thigs. If we please eachother, things change.

When doing it, start slowly, make medium to fast movements then slow again. Change position. Look at eachothers eyes and kiss. it will take some time but you will come out of it. I can also advice you to buy an herbal supplement (BIG BAM BOO) which is not expensive ($13.00) and is very effective. You can buy it at Right-Aid. Just follow instructions becouse it can be harmful, it's very strong.

I hope I have been of good help.

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Guest over a year ago

Sorry for the spelling errors, autocorrection hah. But thank you so much!!! I will definitely take your advice and try those things. Hope they work

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Guest over a year ago

First off he has to know that it bothers you so he can work on it mentally. Just because you think he knows is not a clear understanding of how you truly feel. Also my lady licks me and it causes for a shorter session but when you engage into the arts of fellatio it gets him to his peek and then upon insertion into you it seals the deal. You should definetly try different positions if you think he is getting to aroused. Try letting him lick you till you are about to cum and tell him to come inside and with speedy you will be sure to cum together as some have said it bonds them.<3

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mr-smile201665 over a year ago

I kind of had this problem i was single for quite a bit of time when i found another g/f it was like being a virgin again the excitement have having sex putting it inside her use to get to my mind also the feeling was so much better than when i would masturbate,So when i was alone and masturbating i started the stop start method took some time but i got there in the end i would masturbate and when i would feel i was going to cum i would sop for a short while and i carried on like that,The stop start method makes the orgasm feeling so much better.

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Handytim155729 over a year ago

yup...using the stop/start method made me longer lasting

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jimmy60266922 over a year ago

try grabbing the base of his penis when you feel his penis start to shoot. my ex gf taught me that trick.

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Guest over a year ago

My boyfriend and I have had sex 5 times and he cums really early. But I thinks there’s something wrong with me about it take forever to make me cum and he says my p***y is to tigh. I feel like I’m just not doing thing right

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Guest over a year ago

Due to my busy schedule I noticed my wife had been using this opportunity to cheat on me but anytime I ask her she will deny and get furious at me until I decided to take my chances to know, knowing is much better than self doubts and its exactly what happened when I requested for the service of 'hackingloop6 @ gm ail . c o m' to help me check her phone I was able to see all that comes in her phone without touching her phone. I found out she had been visiting her ex boyfriend they met when she was in college. She was shocked when I revealed the details to her she never believed I could go that far

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robin354162 over a year ago

I finish too fast when having sex and my penis goes flaccid in seconds. Is this a serious problem?

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