hey guys :-)
so yesterday my boyfriend came over. we decided to finally have sex.
weve both never done it before so we were both a bit confused >-<
so basically we had penetraition and everything, i was in alot of pain but we went on anyway. we went on for a while but he didnt finish, we decided to give up because we had to go out. he was pretty confused as to why he never finished, so we tried head to see if that would work, but he wasnt really into it so i stopped
we went and checked the time, and we had been having sex for two hours >-<
he did have pre-cum but no orgasm or anything >-<
i ended up spending a whole day with him after that anyway and we talked about it quite a bit.
he hadnt eaten before we had sex, which i think might have contributed, since he might not have had enough energy,
it was pretty hot too. 43 degrees celcius. that might have had something to do with it ?
he said he was kind of turned off because of the pain i was in.
what i think it could have been more likley than all the others is that we used a condom.
it could have affected both of us because i didnt get much out of it either but ive heard of guys not being able to have an orgasm with a condom on. if so should i try using birth control ? what else is out there other than the pill ?
ive heard of birth contol patches... what are they like?
i really need help :-(
i dont want our second time to be like that :-(
so yesterday my boyfriend came over. we decided to finally have sex.
weve both never done it before so we were both a bit confused >-<
so basically we had penetraition and everything, i was in alot of pain but we went on anyway. we went on for a while but he didnt finish, we decided to give up because we had to go out. he was pretty confused as to why he never finished, so we tried head to see if that would work, but he wasnt really into it so i stopped
we went and checked the time, and we had been having sex for two hours >-<
he did have pre-cum but no orgasm or anything >-<
i ended up spending a whole day with him after that anyway and we talked about it quite a bit.
he hadnt eaten before we had sex, which i think might have contributed, since he might not have had enough energy,
it was pretty hot too. 43 degrees celcius. that might have had something to do with it ?
he said he was kind of turned off because of the pain i was in.
what i think it could have been more likley than all the others is that we used a condom.
it could have affected both of us because i didnt get much out of it either but ive heard of guys not being able to have an orgasm with a condom on. if so should i try using birth control ? what else is out there other than the pill ?
ive heard of birth contol patches... what are they like?
i really need help :-(
i dont want our second time to be like that :-(
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theres dams for girls(female condums) but if u dont use condums and pill u can still get STDs even if neither of u have 1
pluse men dont cum because
-turned off
-stressed
-depressed
and having a boner for 2 hours ment he was turned on the whole tiime
pluse men dont cum because
-turned off
-stressed
-depressed
and having a boner for 2 hours ment he was turned on the whole tiime
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Sounds to me that you are both very normal. First time, both nervous, unsure....that's all. Don't overthink and make more of it than it was. If you go into it a second time with the nerves about the first time, it could happen again. Just chalk it up as a first time nerves thing and move on. The first time I was with my husband, he got so nervous that he ended up playing with himself while I watched and kinda helped by rubbing my hands on his body. The key to a good sex life is being relaxed!!!!!!!!!
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