Hi, I'm 16 and I've been searching for answers on the internet but have had no luck and came here hoping to get answers so here goes... I'm 16 and have just had sex for the first time a few hours ago for the first time. My boyfriend is the same age as me, it was also his first time, such a gentleman and defiantly caring and kind and would never hurt me in anyway, and he was wanting it but didn't want to force me to do it which was nice of him. Well, I decided to do it. We kept taking his (...) out every few seconds because we were so scared of pregnancy even if we were wearing a condom, and we kept checking it for cuts. So after about 2 minutes of nerves, we finished. He started to finger me making him smile and I couldn't help but smile back, we love each other so much, but afterwards, to his horror, he noticed a blood stained goo dripping out of my vagina which has never happened to me before. He went into a fit of nerves and I couldn't calm him, he was terrified it was a sign I was pregnant, and I was abit worried too, I was wondering if you could help me and please calm me down, what is that gooey bloody liquid? what does it mean? please tell me i'm not pregnant... :(
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You are not pregnant! After sex your first time your vagina stretches and with the stretch often comes blood, from the hymen breaking and just from the stretching and tearing of the vaginal walls. Its completely normal and EVERY female goes through this her first time, relax and tell your bf to relax too, it's completely normal for you! It gets easier from here on out, trust me. Good on you for using protection.
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