he wanted anal sex on our first time

i was dating this guy for couple of months. he was very very nice. everything went smooth. one night we agreed to be exclusive, give us a real chance and had sex. all is good other than fact that after 5 mins into making he requested anal sex. i was shocked. i have tried it before and never had any pleasure from it. i avoid it at all costs. granted, i would do it with my future husband given that trust and shared medical bills are there, etc. but with someone who did not earn my *** at all? he penis was huge! i gave in but did not have any fun. he told me that he is going to kill my *** next time(!). i asked him why *** is involved, he said the act will make him truly his.i was trying to please him as much as i could, however the whole situation did not feel good at all. seriously? next day he was asking if i liked it, if my *** felt good, etc. i said i will know shortly. now, i m just thinking to call it quits. he spent maybe 5 min with my p***y. i feel less of a woman now. my p***y is amazing and i am young, fit, very attractive woman. even if i continue seeing him, what are we going to do in 3-4 months if we start with anal. i will always feel that vaginal sex is just not doing it for him. my thinking is that he has anal fixation which will not make me happy at all given his size. other than that the guy is perfect. but so am i. please share your opinions. 18 hours ago - 3 days left to answer.