Never had an orgasm :(

Hi guys,

I am 35 years old and have never had an orgasm...dunno how close I've gotten to one, but I've had my legs start shaking and then for some reason we then stop having sex (probably cos he cums)....I have it playing on my mind during sex too, wondering if it'll happen this time or not...When I masterbate a particiular way, using my fingers and doing the "come here" motion I sometimes have alot of fluid coming out, but not feeling any orgasmic things happening in that time....Gosh, I just need more info and help here guys, dunno what I'm doing :(