I'm writing this post to anyone who is in the position of only having one testicle. I'm a 20 year old male. I was born with two seemingly perfectly normal testicles. When I just turned 15 I had to have my right testicle removed because of a tumor that had developed in it. Now that's not exactly what you want when you're in your mid-teens! But let me tell you from first-hand experience that it's NO BIG DEAL. The last five years have been the best and most successful years of my life. It won't be a burden so long as you stay in the right frame of mind. I didn't even get an artificial implant installed and I turned out just fine. If you are worried about cosmetics - get one! The point is, one testicle is all you need. Plenty of sperm and testosterone are produced in just one. In fact, when you lose one, your brain signals the remaining testicle to start 'working overtime'. Not only does it cover up for the loss but sometimes it even over-compensates. Why do you think Lance Armstrong won the Tour-De-France so many times! Your remaining testicle's newfound duties might even cause it to grow larger - an added bonus. Men with one testicle look no different from other men and you can't even tell just by looking. You have to reach in and grab to know that something is missing. Is growth a problem? Nope. I'm 6 foot 2 and still growing. To all you guys out there with this problem - you're not alone! Thousands of men have this condition, and I'm one of them. With the rise in testicular cancer rates, the occurance is becoming even more frequent. Don't worry about it fellas. Here's the number one thing. If it continues to worry you - pray to God. He will hear your prayers. He heard mine. You'll be alright.
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i dont have anything useful to contribute on this topic.
but, i really like the attitude of the guy who wrote above me. if that happened to me, i would choose to _ _ _ instead. even going to the doctor showing my private part took me 1 month of thinking until last week i had the courage to do so, to let him check if some spots were ok. i am relieved now
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but, i really like the attitude of the guy who wrote above me. if that happened to me, i would choose to _ _ _ instead. even going to the doctor showing my private part took me 1 month of thinking until last week i had the courage to do so, to let him check if some spots were ok. i am relieved now
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Hey, another 'freak' here, I mean a guy wit one nut. :-) I had one nut my whole life too. Yes, I was a bit shy during my puberty years but I got over it. I too am sexually active and have yet to be wit a woman that has a problem with it. Some woman don't notice and others just don't mind. I was kinda shock that woman really don't care and they don't. Man, I love woman! :-) Anyway, to the parents with a child that only has one nut, I just say treat him like he has two and don't make an issue out of it. He'll be fine. It's no big deal, really...
L8r Folks,
L8r Folks,
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Hi:
I also have one testicle, and no one ever said anything about it to me. I used to swim at the Boys Club with a ton of other kids and if it was really notisable I'm sure one of them would have said something.
I also have one testicle, and no one ever said anything about it to me. I used to swim at the Boys Club with a ton of other kids and if it was really notisable I'm sure one of them would have said something.
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i only have one testicle, i had a hernia when i was a month old and it had to be removed. i dreaded meeting someone who has that attitude towards it, and you should be ashamed. my girlfriend has never had any problems with it at all
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i had one testicles and never bothered me, and my girlfirends is also not bothered about it, and nobody ever cared of me having one testicles as i always a topper in most of the things i do.
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I have lived my life with only one testicle. It's been an issue but not an issue. I was very shy about missing something so strongly associated with being a man. I hated locker rooms and always arranged to slip from street clothes to gym clothes and back again in case someone noticed. I was slow to date and have sex due, in large part, to my anxiety about having my secret discovered. I was surprised that when I finally got the courage to be intimate and told my gal what she was about to discover, she seemed not that surprised or concerned after all my anxiety. I've gone on to father two children without the slightest problem and regard my sex life as quite normal. Now, in my middle years and happily married, this seems like such a minor issue but through my younger years it was a big issue that had an impact on my social life and self-confidence.
I don't suppose the original poster can help her reactions but I would suggest that if she has these reactions, then this guy is not the right one for her. If his having only one testicle is such a concern, then I suspect there is more than a missing testicle causing problems.
I don't suppose the original poster can help her reactions but I would suggest that if she has these reactions, then this guy is not the right one for her. If his having only one testicle is such a concern, then I suspect there is more than a missing testicle causing problems.
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I hope the girl who finds the condition of having only one testicle never has a breast removed through cancer. How on earth would she cope? I can hardly believe her lack of concern for the feelings of her partner. I think the post may have been written by a male with this condition to guage the response. Surely no girl could be so insensitive.
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I am a 19 year old who has had the artificial implant mentioned. I must say i grew up very uncomfortable, but never let anyone know i only ever had one testicle. I had this procedure at the end of year 12. Although a very strange feeling at first and a week or so of being uncomfortable walking everything worked out perfectly, i am so happy i have done it, it is something i will not regret doing. However, they try and match a size of the implant to the same size as the original one, so leaving it until late teens was probably a good idea. I have been in relationships with girls who have not noticed the difference. If you (or to those with kids..if they) feel uncomfortable, i really recommend having it done, it does wonders to your own confidence.
I am a 19 year old who has had the artificial implant mentioned. I must say i grew up very uncomfortable, but never let anyone know i only ever had one testicle. I had this procedure at the end of year 12. Although a very strange feeling at first and a week or so of being uncomfortable walking everything worked out perfectly, i am so happy i have done it, it is something i will not regret doing. However, they try and match a size of the implant to the same size as the original one, so leaving it until late teens was probably a good idea. I have been in relationships with girls who have not noticed the difference. If you (or to those with kids..if they) feel uncomfortable, i really recommend having it done, it does wonders to your own confidence.
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Hello I am 45 now fathered 3 boys and am not shocked by this woman. You see there are some very insensitive, shallow and selfish people around. I had an accident on a bike and suffered the loss of my right testicle at the age of 15. Good it was painful and for many years I thought I was alone and did suffer with anxiety etc. I have had loads of sexual fun and was it great when my wife said she was pregnant. I mean I thought id never father children so. Anyway after 17 yrs of marriage im now divorced and starting life all over again with the one ball lol. Just to point out that Ive had several sexual relationships and not one woman has ever said nasty things about my oneness! So any young one ballers out there, do not fret. No one is perfect and we do gain a great resilance and compasion of others less fortunate, because of our condition. :-)
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what does it matter, I'm 15 for christs sake and i get enough pooonntaanngg lmao. an undescended testicle is quite a common condition and those affected should not feel like a 'freak'. if ur blond my dear, u may not have noticed that there are usualli two of most features of human body..u know, eyes,ears, nostrils, arms, legs lol theres 2 testicles for a reason :-)
try not to let it worry or bother you
try not to let it worry or bother you
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Get a fake one and dare your partner to bite it. I've had a lot of fun with mine!!! One works just fine, as long as you dont take life too seriously, youll get plenty of opportunities to use it. I think this girl is great, I bet her biyfriend is probably a putts or she wouldn't be too worried.
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I have been this way my whole life. I'm not going to say it hasn't caused me feelings of inadequacy, because it has. I have been very good at keeping it a secret, and I have had sex with many women and none have ever known. I'm not proud of the fact that I have had sex with many women, nor am I proud that I have to keep it such a secret, but this condition has affected my long term relationships drastically. I feel that the longer I stay with a woman the more chance she has of finding out, and I have always feared the reaction I would get after a woman did discover it. Basically, this condition has turned me into a very promiscuous male, and deep down, that is not what I really want to be. I feel like I can never be with just one person, because sooner or later they are going to feel around down there and discover the truth. This condition has ruined my life. I am considering getting an implant so I can feel more normal.
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my left nut never fully dropped. my parents and doctor just let it be. It caused me much embarrassment and anxiety in junior high. I had a gym teacher ridicule me as he stood outside the shower and passed out towels. It made me ovely sensitive. I have fathered 2 children and have been with many women - never had a problem. Its kinda sexy now. But as a young man it was a real weight on my psyche to be made to feel odd. Most young men need confidence so it is important that people understand that its ok to be different. If you are a parent - talk to your son about the condition. It not a good secret
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I am a 10 year survivor of testicular cancer. I can assure all of you young guys, that it will NEVER be an issue with a woman, unless she is an id**t ( or he is an id**t) as the person who wrote the thread. I have never onnce ever had it be an issue.
One other thing. Those of you who may still have an undecended testicle, you want to see a Urologist for checkups, as you are at an Increased risk for testicular cancer. So see a dr regularly.
other than that dont worry about it.
One other thing. Those of you who may still have an undecended testicle, you want to see a Urologist for checkups, as you are at an Increased risk for testicular cancer. So see a dr regularly.
other than that dont worry about it.
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