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I would really appreciate it if someone could please give me some advice. Roughly 6 days ago, my boyfriend and I had an unprotected sexual encounter. He didn't penetrate me, but he rubbed his penis against my vagina for about 30 seconds (the entrance; so if there was precum ,it may have gotten into my vagina), and I'm not sure if there was precum or not. He told me that he definitely peed a lot that day, and that he didn't ejaculate since the time of the sexual encounter and the time he peed. He gave me oral after that. I washed my vagina out thoroughly with water, and even put soap in it just to make sure (although I doubt it would help actually.)
I'm just very paranoid that I might be pregnant now. My period usually comes around the 15th of the month, and that thursday, it was the 6th, so I might have been ovulating. I've been told that precum doesn't have sperm as long as the guy urinates beforehand, but sitll. I've been having cramps since 3 days after the encounter, and they feel like menstrual cramps; however, no bleeding. I took a pregnancy test yesterday (4 days before my period, and it was negative) Could someone please give me advice?? I know, I'll use protection next time.

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P.S., I researched it, and it says that a fertilized egg usually implants between about 7-12 days, and so I've come to the conclusion that the cramps would not be due to that, since they started 3 days after the encounter.
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It's possible you could get pregnant, not SUPER likely, but possible. The washing the outside of your vagina/using soap wouldn't have done anything, sadly. Also you're correct that the earliest you can see symptoms is a week after but many woman don't notice symptoms for months. It was too early to take a pregnancy test, so I would wait until your period to take another one. If you miss your period, take one, if you get your period... don't worry about it. Until then TRY not to stress out too much cause that could mess up your cycle as well ;-)
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Thanks for the info. Actually, I put soap INSIDE my vagina... Not healthy I know, but I was just freaked out at the moment. I just thought of the fact that I usually get my period around the 15th though, so wouldn't that mean I couldn't have ovulated around the time of the encounter? The weird thing though is that on the 5th (almost 24 hours before it happened), I felt a weird twinge for a few seconds on the left side of my abdomen, so I thought it could be that. Could it?

Also, could the cramps that I could be getting be from pregnancy, even 3 days after conception or would it just be from premenstruation? I don't usually get cramps before menstruation.
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The exact same thing just happened to me 8 days ago. I got cramps and twinges on the left side by my ovary. Did it turn out you were pregnant??
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